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Lu
Platinum Member
37
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Denver, Colorado, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 32
Drink:
Don't drink
You’ve found me! Well, I’m here so, Let’s chat!
37 years on the blue ball of water and I have no kids, don’t drink, smoke, do drugs and I love to work out and go to the gym but I’m not a gym rat. Mainly at my home gym half the time. I love to laugh, talk and also have my quiet time and just decompress in peace.
James
Standard Member
40
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Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking:
Female
Drink:
Don't drink
My ex said I have a big talong ,dont know meaning?
I’m a Single guy , hard working Musician on the side , been playing guitar over 19 years Been single for many years I love and am very attracted to Asian women I live in Chicago USA I’m very sweet, honest, strong , caring , funny , fun , loyal
Michael
Standard Member
40
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Jacksonville, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 45
Drink:
Don't drink
プレイするのはプレステだけ。女性の心では遊びません!
"A woman's heart is a dark forest." -Ivan Turgenev I want what you want as long as you need what I need. Arts and humanities. And cats. That's what I'm all about! Aspiring to be World's number one cat daddy! For friends and romance I require kindness and respect. Don't have those, please do not bother me. Intimacy is about the person, love is about the person. The face and body and clothes that hair and makeup are just part of the person not the whole person. I am allergic to dogma. And grass... If you are a smart and funny down to Earth dreamer hit me up!
James
Standard Member
40
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West Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking:
Female 45 - 99
Drink:
Don't drink
Confident, Caring, and Ready for Something Real
At 40, I know who I am and what I want—and I’m loving this chapter of life. Friends would describe me as charismatic, grounded, and a mix of playful and passionate. I take pride in staying active, keeping a healthy lifestyle, and enjoying life’s pleasures—whether it’s a night out with great music and dancing, a spontaneous weekend getaway, or a cozy night in with good wine and better conversation. I’m attractive inside and out, but what really makes me stand out is my energy, warmth, and ability to make people feel comfortable and seen. Life is more fun when it’s shared, and I’m looking for someone who can match my spark.
Wes
Standard Member
Verified
65
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Dayton, Ohio, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 54
Drink:
Don't drink
Looking for Love
I am a retired manager for an electrical contractor. I am twice divorced (a long time ago) and live alone. I am also a musician (guitar & bass), having been in local music groups for many years. I enjoy long walks, intimate talks & physical touch like holding hands (as I am very affectionate). I am a softy, and wear my heart on my sleeve. I am easy to get along with but do demand respect (once it is earned), absolute loyalty (no cheating or micro cheating) & consistent communication. I have come to somewhat despise certain aspects of social media such as blocking and restricting access to profiles and accounts. And have no interest in someone that is glued to their phone 24/7.
Chris
Standard Member
Verified
63
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Knoxville, Tennessee, United States
Seeking:
Female 23 - 34
Drink:
Don't drink
Healthy man seeking a beautiful attentive woman
health conscious , busy schedule with my business, live alone, in my own home, I enjoy good food and I am highly disciplined, exercise daily, I am a light eater, I like salads, turkey, chicken, smoothies, pasta, baked potato, cheese, and white tea
Carlos
Standard Member
Verified
41
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Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 27
Drink:
Don't drink
una mujer seria, amable, y hogarera
Hola, estoy aquí para conocer a una mujer que tiene la misma ética de trabajo que yo. Una relación debe ser un esfuerzo de equipo y debe basarse en la confianza, el trabajo duro y, por supuesto, el amor genuino. Por favor, no me hagas perder el tie
Jeffrey
Standard Member
48
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Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 38
Drink:
Don't drink
Finding the Love of my Life is hard.
I like sailing and skiing. I’m a retired military man. I’ve been single for 4 years now. I was married 27 years and have 2 daughters . I’m kind, have a good heart, I like to help others. I’m a God fearing Christian and I’m loyal to my partner. I have a lot to offer for the right woman.
James
Standard Member
59
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Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking:
Female 33 - 51
Drink:
Don't drink
Looking for my mate
I am a retired engineer. I am a owner of sports training facilities. Full of humor ,very health conscious. Go to gym 4 to 5 days a week. Athletic build,love experience new things and like life to the fullest. I am a gentleman and a man of my word. Very stable,with a lot to offer the right waman.
AJ
Standard Member
48
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Wheeling, West Virginia, United States
Seeking:
Female 19 - 34
Drink:
Don't drink
Would you move to the US? I'm fully retired.
I'm fully retired from the United States Navy. I have homes near Pittsburgh Pennsylvania and I'm not willing to relocate, however I would certainly like to visit. I'm looking for a very serious relationship that lasts until death do we part. Are yo
ARLEN
Standard Member
65
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Jacksonville, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 55 - 65
Drink:
Don't drink
Real man
Business owner I am not the average 65 year old- My woman has to be fit or a bodybuilder also she has to be Asian I am an ex-competitive bodybuilder and was a Gigilo in the 80's so I know what women want and my woman always Cums or Comes first in whatever I am doing.Her happiness is my number 1 priority!
Josh
Standard Member
Verified
33
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Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 32
Drink:
Don't drink
Strong enough to build, soft enough to love, bold.
I’m the kind of guy who’ll make you laugh, steal your fries, and maybe your heart. I like my conversations deep, my dates fun, and my kisses unforgettable. The guy your mom will approve of, but your friends will secretly wish they met first. Looking
Michael
Standard Member
61
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Canton, Ohio, United States
Seeking:
Female 40 - 65
Drink:
Don't drink
Looking for a long term relationship with marriage
I’m a very sweet, kind, totally respectful, and a complete gentleman as well. I like traveling, working out in the gym, movies, the theater, concerts, dining out, swimming, tennis, walks in the park, beaches and laying out at the pool. I’m very romantic and super affectionate, and very loyal and faithful. My nickname is michaelccr because I like Creedence Clearwater Revival and and used on skype sometimes.
Albert
Standard Member
60
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Tucson, Arizona, United States
Seeking:
Female 20 - 35
Drink:
Don't drink
I am looking for my soulmate
I am a hard working man. who has been working, since I was 7 years old. Everything that I have, I worked for, my whole life. Never used anyone. Always put everyone before myself. My partner, her needs, will always come before mine. I hate people who
Robert
Standard Member
45
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Anaheim, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 33 - 60
Drink:
Don't drink
Love you forever and forever 💘
Please use Google translator, Portuguese to English. I am American living in Brazil.. t y !! Sou AMERICANO Cavalheiro morando no Rio de Janeiro fulltime. Homen maduro e serioso procurando minha rainha, esposa, amore , para sempre. Sou romantic
Sam
Standard Member
68
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Biddeford, Maine, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 54
Drink:
Don't drink
Interested in Marriage
I have always been self employed. I spent 10 years in Thailand and now I am only interest in Asia. I think however, Filipinas better because of commitment to marriage and religion. I am hoping to become self sufficient again, but now just paying t
Bert
Standard Member
47
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El Paso, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 50
Drink:
Don't drink
im 47, happy, not desperate vry confident at peace
5’5 47 years old, blessed. i come from Mexican parents. Have good clear full body pics on your profile…. I may not be your dream foreigner but I can live my dream life and value myself, peace and time. 🛬I’m in Bataan PH. now on my vacations…🇵
Ronniron
Standard Member
64
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Wichita Falls, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 50
Drink:
Don't drink
I'm a professional who prides himself in his work, accomplishments and continues to be success driven. I'm also active in charity work. My life entails reading, dancing, fitness, travel, romance, spiritualism and I'm family oriented. Due to my current ambition of personal and professional growth, both requiring time by myself and working.
frank
Gold Member
38
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New Rochelle, New York, United States
Seeking:
Female 27 - 50
Drink:
Don't drink
respectful guy
Read my profile carefully to find me. I am an older gentleman, very respectful, very educated. again read my profile carefully.I am attractive and in good shape, never smoke, drink or take drugs.i teach science at gee male and love the I am disease free and i love sports and music and love nature parks to walk and relax and just feel alive. love to Hike ,and listen to music. I love sports and played on many Teams, especially baseball for the frankly less to 4 1 teams in the college rankings.I love movies and music especially jazz and classical music.
Mark
Standard Member
71
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Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 55
Drink:
Don't drink
Affectionate, kind Salsero
Please don't write to me if you're not fitness and health oriented. I won't reply. I’m happy, romantic, kind, warm, clean, very affectionate, passionate, attentive and virile. I have an easy disposition but I’m strong and steadfast on the inside
America
Standard Member
41
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Santa Monica, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 26 - 32
Drink:
Don't drink
US Healthcare Professional Seeking Family Oriented
Anyone can message me because I am a Platinum member. so feel free to message me if you have any interest in getting to know me. I live in California USU. I love the beach so much that I bought a home right on the beach in Southern California. I love to work out every day. I live in the US but have traveled to the Philippines a few times to provide medical relief after the typhoons. I became interested in the Filipino culture because it is very family oriented and the people of the Philippines were very kind to me. I am a hospital executive in California. Until recently I have been too busy with my career for a relationship. I am now at a point in my life where I am ready to be in a long-term monogamous committed relationship that will hopefully lead to . You will not find a funnier guy with a better sense of humor. I can guarantee I will make you laugh a lot! :-) I have a very strong faith in God. It is the most important thing in my life. I am a very loyal and faithful “one woman man“. I am a platinum premium member so anyone can message me here. I am not on this website often. Feel free to send me your WhatsApp number or Messenger name if you would like to communicate directly.
Max
Standard Member
Verified
37
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Frederick, Maryland, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 30
Drink:
Don't drink
Let's Make Memories Enjoying Life's Simple Allure
I love the outdoors, living in the moment and taking in all the beautiful views of nature. My hobbies would include playing sports such as tennis, basketball, and golf. I play bass and guitar in the worship band at church. In a world that is becoming increasingly complex, it is nice to take a step back and revert to simple ways of living. Faith has grounded me and after consistently taking my own path for the past 10 or so years I can finally say that I believe I am on the right path moving forward living true to myself the way God has intended. I am a homebody at heart that loves to read, write, and is always eager to gain more wisdom. I am working on self-love something that I have struggled with so much in the past. My ideal night would be spent with my partner just enjoying each other's company while cuddling reading or watching a movie. In a world that is becoming increasingly complex, it is nice to take a step back and revert to simple ways of living. Let's make memories and enjoy the natural gifts that life provides.
LawrenceToddLarry
Standard Member
54
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Clearwater, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 40
Drink:
Don't drink
1 good woman
I am Kind and caring, but make no mistakes about I am not a pushover. I am straight forward and truly a catch for most normal women. I am a little quite at first until you get to know me. I am looking for my sole- mate not a headache, without the dra
Peace
Standard Member
58
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Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 60
Drink:
Don't drink
Energy- Vibrational-Frequency. Connectivity.🙂...
Down to earth with a pleasant personality.I like people and enjoy the simple things in life.Life is meant to be enjoyed. Everything is here for our pleasure.We must learn to enjoy the moment it is all that we have. Every thought has a vibrational fr
scott
Standard Member
71
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Yuba, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 60
Drink:
Don't drink
nice man for a nice lady
just a normal nice guy, still working, have a 15 yr old daughter at home like to do just about everything, open minded not to hard headed. like things neat and clean and in order. like to cook, like to go out or stay at home. would like to thank all the wonderful and beautifull woman that has viewed my profile and has sent mail.would also like to add i am here for a serious and committed relationship, someone that is interested in relocating,and age is a factor also. a younger women to me has to be moraly wrong i know those things happen but i will keep my bar a little higher,
Rey
Standard Member
51
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Las Vegas, Nevada, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 26
Drink:
Don't drink
Mr. Right ;)
I'm a hopeless romantic, simple, have respect for women. I love to make people laugh. I enjoy travel, playing music and singing. I love water sports and walks on the beach, especially at sunset. I am honest to the point of not being diplomatic, but hey, life isn't a popularity contest.
Jamal
Standard Member
Verified
40
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Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 25
Drink:
Don't drink
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I am a confident, very attractive; comedic person, and brave. I can be tactful sometimes, and don't even know it. I don't like to wash dishes! Level of understanding is Astonishing. My hobby's are basketball, bowling, swimming, and weight lifting,Hiking, Museum, Art,Horse back riding,Wine tasting, barbecue, bike riding, I like to go out to new places and try new things, also like to travel, and I always try to keep a positive mindset. I am a man with courage and a good heart. Can provide you with the best moments of your life. I love to help people in need and fulfill their's life with happiness.
Robert
Standard Member
Verified
56
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Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 56
Drink:
Don't drink
Bukas na Isip, Pusong Tapat, Pag-ibig na Tunay
Namumuhay ako nang simple, may layunin, at ayon sa sarili kong ritmo. Naniniwala ako na ang tunay na koneksyon ay nabubuo sa kapayapaan, katapatan, at pagkakaunawaan. Hinahanap ko ang mga babaeng may bukas na isip, mabuting puso, at emosyonal na kap
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Coach
Standard Member
55
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Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 47
Drink:
Don't drink
King Seeking A Queen!
I'm a laid back person who has endured both the trials and triumphs of life, but still holds a positive outlook on life. I believe the best is still to come. I am a man of faith, family and fun. If you are an authentic Woman with the same values .
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Henry David
Standard Member
Verified
64
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Aiken, South Carolina, United States
Seeking:
Female 45 - 56
Drink:
Don't drink
Attractive healthy man for hot woman.
I am healthy, happy, laugh a lot, relaxed, open minded, romantically focused and enjoy good fun. I did find a good Thai woman who doesn't mind being a naughty girl. I like it very much if we have honest communication. I am spontaneous, sex will happ
Chase
Standard Member
Verified
65
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Sandy, Utah, United States
Seeking:
Female 45 - 58
Drink:
Don't drink
Adventurous athlete looking for Life partner
I’m relocating to Baguio October 1 to explore it as a place to live part time. Hoping to meet a woman that is adventurous, fit, athletic, and looking for a long-term committed relationship. I believe a relationship should be built on mutual trust, integrity, loyalty, and affection. I am a one woman man after things go past the Initial casual dating stage. I’m a semi retired professional that has spent his whole life working hard and is now ready for a new chapter. I still work part-time professionally in the US but enjoy a flexible schedule and fortunate to engage only in work I enjoy. SCAMMERS- don’t waste your time you won’t receive any money and will be reported.
Jeffrey
Standard Member
54
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Indianapolis, Indiana, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 58
Drink:
Don't drink
World champion seeking for he’s next champion.
I’m a man who leads with heart as much as strength—deeply loving, genuinely caring, and grounded in kindness and understanding. Family means everything to me, and I believe in building a home filled with respect, peace, and loyalty. I work hard, stay disciplined, and keep an open mind toward growth, new experiences, and meaningful connection. I value honesty, compassion, and a strong partnership where both people support and elevate each other.
Ricky
Standard Member
39
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San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 25
Drink:
Don't drink
Looking for Christian Chinese girl to marry
I'm a simple man living a simple life looking for someone special to share it with. I am not in a rush to get into a relationship quickly because I want to be careful and would like to get to know someone very well as every good relationship takes ti
Ken
Standard Member
60
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High Point, North Carolina, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 42
Drink:
Don't drink
Smart fit man look many years younger than my age.
Smart, focused, sigma type, follow my own way. Don't follow politics, religion, media, medicine, so called science. I'm a free thinker. Want to live as independently as possible to be resilient in any situation. Like to spend time with my woman and make sure she has what she needs.
Kevin
Standard Member
48
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Cherry Hill, New Jersey, United States
Seeking:
Female 22 - 40
Drink:
Don't drink
Kevin
I’m a business-minded, creative, and driven man who enjoys building things—whether that’s a successful business, a comfortable home, or a meaningful relationship. I’ve spent years working in business, marketing, and the beauty industry, and I take pr
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