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AJ
Platinum Member
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61
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North Providence, Rhode Island, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 28
Drink:
Don't drink
Single. No children. I love nature and traveling
I block 97% of all on here because most accounts contacting me are fake. If you are a guy, don't buy a membership here. For the 3% of accounts on here that are genuine...I am single. I do not have children. I love nature, cooking, photography, art,
Christy
Platinum Member
Verified
56
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Las Vegas, Nevada, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 50
Drink:
Don't drink
Just looking around
I am an American, 57 years old originally from Tampa, Florida. I am an Airline Pilot. Please read my full profile before asking me questions that I have already posted here, such as I live in Las Vegas, Nevada, United States, I'm Widowed, I'm seeking Female 30 - 45 within 250 kms of Philippines, and I'm looking for Penpal, Friendship, Romance / Dating, Long Term Relationship, probably in that order. If you are younger than 30, then do not bother. If you are older than 45, that can be taken under consideration. And if you ask what I'm looking for, read more on my profile here.
James
Standard Member
53
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Newport, Rhode Island, United States
Seeking:
Female 39 - 48
Drink:
Don't drink
Looking for my best friend
I am looking for my best friend to share forever with. must like dogs, fishing and video games every once in a while. I love to cook, romance and horror movies. I go in a fishing trip to Alaska once a year, I would love company, not just for fishing,
Jay
Standard Member
52
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Evansville, Indiana, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 50
Drink:
Don't drink
READ FIRST 👇👇👇👇👇NO JOB? NO MONEY?? MOVE ON!!
Was raised right. I work for a living. I have lots of street smarts and common sense from life experiences. I'm old fashioned. I love and protect everything in my life. I'm a firm believer in proof of true intentions and a genuine soul. I've known ab
Michael
Standard Member
Verified
55
•
Omaha, Nebraska, United States
Seeking:
Female 34 - 49
Drink:
Don't drink
Looking for my other half.
I’m looking for a partner in crime for everything from camping under the stars to dancing the night away. I enjoy the thrill of amusement parks, the relaxation of tubing down the river, and the comfort of snuggling up for a movie at home with my dog.
Brandon
Standard Member
32
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Eau Claire, Wisconsin, United States
Seeking:
Female 24 - 30
Drink:
Don't drink
I will not send money to you scammers, stop asking
I’m calm and steady, family oriented, and grounded in my faith. I’m a proud father, and being a dad has shaped me to value patience, responsibility, and creating a stable home. I enjoy staying active and working toward goals, but I also know how to s
Wade
Standard Member
Verified
74
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Redlands, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 34 - 70
Drink:
Don't drink
Always on the bright side!
I love to make others smile. Whether it is a family member, friend or stranger, I feel I am doing a little of God's work by bringing a little sunshine into their life with a smile or a laugh. I want to meet someone that I can be a part of their life, help them achieve their dreams. Share in helping others. I am loyal, love to laugh, a good listener.
Mike
Standard Member
Verified
48
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Longview, Washington, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 38
Drink:
Don't drink
Family-Oriented Man Seeking a Peaceful Partnership
I’m a 48-year-old American father raising an incredible 7-year-old daughter. Being present in her life — coaching her soccer team, teaching her, guiding her — is something I’m very proud of. I live a stable, peaceful life and value loyalty, affectio
Greg
Standard Member
Verified
71
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Phoenix, Arizona, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 59
Drink:
Don't drink
Romantic Guy Looking for his Cute Sweetheart !
I’m an old fashioned Romantic Arizona guy who likes simple things: classic cars (especially Corvettes), a day at the beach, browsing antique or junk shops, and good food. I’m easy-going, sarcastic in a quiet way, and I don’t need a lot of noise or drama. I enjoy driving somewhere quiet, watching a soccer match on TV or at the stadium, cooking a steak or pasta at home, and just relaxing. I’ve lived in Hawaii and Mexico for stretches, so I’m comfortable with different cultures and food. Looking for someone calm, honest, and affectionate to share the simple stuff with.
Charles
Standard Member
60
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Canton, Ohio, United States
Seeking:
Female 33 - 55
Drink:
Don't drink
Looking for my FOREVER LOVE a wife to love ❤️
I'm a very loyal and trustworthy ,honest man, and very touchy Feely love showing her how much I love ❤️ her even chasing her around the house to cuddle and love on her, will want to do thing together and make your friends jealous of how very much you
Brad
Standard Member
72
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Hesperia, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 56 - 65
Drink:
Don't drink
May the sun warm you and brighten your pathway!
*I will not use WhatsApp* ❤️❤️ I am gentle, soft-spoken, and do not like contentious environments. I believe that most things can be resolved with love, an open mind, and good communication. I enjoy romantic occasions such as candlelight dinners at home, or a cozy restaurant. I also like world culture and gratefully enjoyed the opportunity to live three months in Jiangsu, China. I like: 🛣Scenic Road Trips (with Romance and Adventure) 🏜Nature ⛰️Nature Hikes 🎎World Culture 🦒 Zoos 🎬Movies 🎭Live Theater 🏛Museums, 🌭picnics 🎲Board Games 🧩Puzzles ⚾️Baseball 📷Photography & more * * * * It would be great to find someone who shares similar interests. Let's enjoy each other's company as we learn more about one another and enjoy the adventure along the way. Thank you for reading ♥️♥️
Ricardo
Standard Member
20
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San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 24
Drink:
Don't drink
Well I'm Ricardo Julian. A Christian young man.
I can connect with all different types of people. I love to Work Out but I also love playing video game. I love Sports but I'm also very interested in fashion. It's like I'm a universal outlet for all kinds of input devices. I'm always looking to imp
leon
Standard Member
46
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Seattle, Washington, United States
Seeking:
Female 27 - 49
Drink:
Don't drink
I like to be at peace most of the time
I am a very free man and I believe in peace and joy. I love to help others grow and be better. In a relationship I do not treat others as if they are mine I encourage self expression and I know I do not own anyone and I would never treat someone as if I do. I love to laugh and do it often. Im a funny person and I have lots of confidence. Im sweet and caring and when I say that I mean I pay attention to how people around me are feeling.
jimmie
Standard Member
62
•
Brunswick, Maine, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 85
Drink:
Don't drink
loving man here for you!
I am a strong and gentle man. I am very affectionate and loving. I will give all of myself to you. i love to cuddle and kiss. I am very sentimental and I cry easily. I want to be happy and in love. There's much more to me if you desire to find my hea
Durian
Standard Member
45
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Salt Lake City, Utah, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 48
Drink:
Don't drink
Love Durian, do you?
The Following is a true account of my life. “I don’t look the way the average cowboy singer looks, I’ll admit I’ve taken things I never should have took, You can read a different story, in a lot of different books, but even then you won’t really know, how it was “A Long Time Ago”
Bruce
Standard Member
65
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Livonia, Michigan, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 48
Drink:
Don't drink
Buscando a mi princesa
I am a divorced father of 3 living in Michigan (USA), raising my children myself. I enjoy cooking, doing my own home and automobile repairs, outdoor activities and travel as much as possible. Recently my favorite activity is horticulture, I am grow
Rob
Standard Member
74
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Warren, Ohio, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 51
Drink:
Don't drink
Looking For One Last Love
I'm kind, gentle, caring, and loving, and I'm looking for a similar minded woman to spend the rest of my life with. I've been remodeling this country house to make it as comfortable as I can, and also have been setting it up to raise chickens, ducks, and turkeys. My goal is to be as self sufficient as I can and to live a simple happy life here in this beautiful home surrounded by the beauty of nature. I'm trying to set up an online business and would love a gal who is interested in doing that as well. If you love to be in love, and you want to live a simple happy life..then I'm your man!
Stuart
Standard Member
59
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Ventura, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 28 - 38
Drink:
Don't drink
"All of me, why not take all of me..."
I am alone and want to make a difference in your life. I am well educated, retired former Advertising executive, author, and flower ranch owner. I am amiably divorced and happy, realistic, humorous, enjoy sharing control, embracing change, a devout foody, living with 2 dogs/2 cats/too many tropical fish, love reading/gardening/hiking/music/travelling. I own cozy 3-bedroom English Garden cottage 10 minutes from Pacific seashore with many fruit trees and flower gardens in southern California.
Mark
Standard Member
74
•
Delray Beach, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 55 - 60
Drink:
Don't drink
One woman man
I am seventy two years old I live in floridand I would like to meet a woman That speak english And that wants to make a life with someone That is strictly monogamous I do not play games I have no time for games And I am interested in one thing and on
Louis
Standard Member
30
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Lafayette, Louisiana, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 30
Drink:
Don't drink
🇩🇴🇺🇸🇵🇭 Boxing Enthusiast / Traveler
Hardworking guy from Louisiana, focused on welding school, fitness, and self-improvement. I enjoy boxing, traveling, and learning about different cultures. I’m looking for someone genuine, loyal, and supportive — a woman who values honesty and conne
Chris
Standard Member
54
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Reading, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking:
Female 40 - 85
Drink:
Don't drink
GIVING THIS A TRY
I'm a calm and emotional aware man who values depth over drama, consistency over chaos, an d connection over convenience More about me? I'd say i'm someone who finds joy in the simple things of life- quiet mornings, good conversations, feeling safe in someone's presence, and moments where you can just be without judgement. I'm happiest when there's emotional connection, when i feel seen and valued for who i truly am What excites me? The idea of building something meaningful with someone who understands the balance between strenght and softness. Deep, thoughtful exchanges, shared laughter, and the subtle yet powerful energy of mutual respect and chemistry- that's where the magic is for me I'm open-minded and always learning. I believe that every connection teaches us something, and i welcome that with a full heart and a calm spirit
David
Standard Member
Verified
65
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Bangor, Maine, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 55
Drink:
Don't drink
ONLINE DATING IS BS
DUE TO CONSTANT HARASSMENT BY MY DERANGED INTERNET STALKER, I AM UNABLE TO CONTINUE MY PURSUIT TO FIND LOVE. HER ACTIONS HAVE RENDERED THE PROCESS UNMANAGEABLE AND A COMPLETE WASTE OF MY TIME AND MONEY. HOW DARE YOU DO THIS TO ME, TO DEDICATE YOUR VE
Kevin
Standard Member
63
•
Folsom, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 18
Drink:
Don't drink
Are you the one I’m looking for?
I am a happily retired American man. I like to travel and vacation. For many years I restored houses and classic cars, and I am a singer. But now my focus is to find my soulmate and enjoy this great life together. I have spent many years working on myself to be here. Now it is time to enjoy
Daniel
Gold Member
59
•
San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 29 - 49
Drink:
Don't drink
Thoughtful talks, calm energy and real connection
Mabuhay! I’m based in California. I;m mostly retired from my real estate business, and now spend my time doing volunteer work with charities that provide free medical care for kids in poor countries, and writing novels - and reading, watching good films, working out, time spent wtih friends..... I lived in Makati many years ago, so I have a real appreciation for the Philippines beyond what most visitors see. For accuracy: the age shown here is off — I’m 68.
Mike
Standard Member
39
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Levittown, New York, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 59
Drink:
Don't drink
I’m calm ‘cause I’ve seen storms. That’s New York.
Humor is important no negative Nellys. Me? Born and raised in New York City 🗽 — now livin’ in the suburbs 🏡. I don’t sugarcoat I’m direct — and I’m not here to babysit feelings. If you're overly sensitive, or can’t handle sarcasm — I'm not for you. I’m here to find a woman — not a daughter. If you can't take a joke or hold a real conversation — imagine how that plays out in real life. If you're smart, mature, and know how to move like a woman, we might click I talk fast, think sharp, good listener but I got no patience for nonsense. I’ve had a Filipina friend for 8 years, who lives in Dubai — so I get the culture. But let’s be real: a lot of women on here want everything overnight. I’m not your ATM 💸. And just cause you say "hi" doesn’t mean I’m sending money or gifts right away. That’s not how this works. But if you’re the right woman? Solid, loyal, consistent? I’ll provide 💵 — real talk. I’ll help with your visa, help build your life up, and give you peace you’ve never had 🌟. But you gotta bring something too: peace, patience honesty and loyalty 🙅♂️ Once you’re in America with me, I don’t want you to work — unless you have a carrerr. I take care of mine. But in return, I want a woman who keeps herself lookin’ good, , and stands beside me like a queen 👑 If you think I’m too rough — go find yourself a soft broke dude 🤷♂️ I’m not that. I’m direct — I say what I mean. Don’t expect me to stop talkin to others unless we're exclusive and don’t expect loyalty if you’re out here sendin private pictures to 10 other guys. If you don’t speak fluent English, that’s cool. I can translate — for now with an app. But I’m not doing that forever. You wanna come to America? Learn the culture. Learn the language. 🇺🇸 If you send me your WhatsApp just to ask for load/data 📲 — you already lost. I'm from NYC, I spot scams before they even open their mouth. Real talk? This world don’t hand out peace to men — we build it, brick by brick, for everyone else. Women get the smiles, kids get the joy… men just get asked to keep it together. 💯
Walter
Standard Member
Verified
60
•
Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 55
Drink:
Don't drink
POSSIBLY SOMEONE WHO WANTS TO TRAVEL WITH ME?
Single mature male with good career and education. Enjoy motorcycle riding, dining out, traveling, cooking and family. I would love somebody with a visa, but if you don’t have one we can try and get one so I can let them come and visit and travel aro
AL
Standard Member
42
•
Greeneville, Tennessee, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 35
Drink:
Don't drink
Fun & laid back guy looking for REAL relationship
I can’t see likes, so please message me. If your pics are heavily filtered, please move on. I’d like to see what you REALLY look like. I’m not paying for POF premium, so if you wanna hit that like button, be sure to send me a message. Laid back a
Jason
Standard Member
50
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Fountain Hills, Arizona, United States
Seeking:
Female 29 - 44
Drink:
Don't drink
Please read my full profile before messaging me.
I am dedicated and trustworthy. I am not here to play games or buy crypto. If you are looking for money or games please do not waste my time. I do not celebrate christmas, easter or halloween and would not allow any of those celebrations in my hom
Branden
Standard Member
26
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University City, Missouri, United States
Seeking:
Female 20 - 99
Drink:
Don't drink
Lost boi trying to find his Neverland
A homebody philosopher with a flair for flirtation, this nerdy, plump romantic wields sarcasm like a sword and analogies like a superpower. I am the kind of guy who'll roast you with love, quote anime mid-debate, and have you laughing, thinking, and
Marko
Standard Member
54
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Hilo, Hawaii, United States
Seeking:
Female 28 - 60
Drink:
Don't drink
A good hearted easy going man looking to meet a lo...
DONT CONTACT ME IF ALL YOU WANT IS LINE OR WHATSAPP or TELEGRAM* I do not use those apps * Aloha from Hawaii , i'm a very big hearted man whom is very sincere , honest and passionate, man whom is romantic and intimate with a high sex drive. I'm very healthy and exercise/workout regularly as you can see.. I'm very straight forward kinda guy as in what you see is what you get all of me mind body and soul. I'm looking to meet a woman hoping to lead to a long term serious relationship whom has the same qualities and desires as myself . Take care and hope to be with you soon :)
Richard
Standard Member
30
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Annapolis, Maryland, United States
Seeking:
Female 28 - 36
Drink:
Don't drink
What you seek is seeking you
Please read all the way through before contacting me. My future friend and hopefully my soulmate. Are you seeking the same as me? I’m working on getting my profile verified. This site is terrible. My age is wrong and it won’t let me change and my pho
Sam
Standard Member
Verified
68
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Savannah, Georgia, United States
Seeking:
Female 46 - 71
Drink:
Don't drink
Hi! Please read my profile before messaging me
Hello! I am a happy person, always in a good mood. I like the people around me to laugh and to be happy, and I stay positive. But please, respect my boundaries: I am looking for a woman who is over 50 years old. Also, no married or separated, please. I'm easy to get along with, I have a lot of interests and hobbies. I am a one woman man. Please do not message me if you are under 50 or married. I love to cook, garden, and swim. I enjoy juggling, ping pong, playing guitar, and chess.
Anthony
Standard Member
Verified
53
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Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking:
Female 45 - 55
Drink:
Don't drink
"Serious Mature Woman Only"
Please read my profile before contacting me. Also, please be ready for video call for verification of who you are. I don't want your nude pictures. I am not here to pay for nude pictures. I respect myself highly and you should too. I don't send money
Kevin
Standard Member
58
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Holland, Michigan, United States
Seeking:
Female 24 - 41
Drink:
Don't drink
I am nobody! Who are you?
Hello, Como estas? Sober yet not somber much. In my house If you don't have money, you need to bring the funny! Time, Trust, and Honest communication of what we think, and feel in the Space of our Spirit. is the bases of all "Was'te" relationships
Jess
Standard Member
Verified
55
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Antioch, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 55
Drink:
Don't drink
I am seeking a sweet Girlfriend
I am 6 ft tall weigh around 195 . I stay really fit for my age . My wife just passed away a last year so I am taking slow . Kind of a see what happens thing. I have the capability to express what my needs and wants are . I am looking for the same in the women I chat with,please be honest with your wants and needs . I am not judgmental so please be honest ,I don’t care if you are a prostitute ,bar girl ,lawyer ,taxi cab driver whatever . Please don’t message if you are married or if you are in a committed relationship. I am financially very secure . But that doesn’t mean I am dumb so please don’t think I am easily scammed . So if that’s what you are here for please don’t message
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