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Joshua
40 Halifax, Nova Scotia, Canada
Seeking: Female 20 - 40
Body style: Large and Lovely
I'm separated and I have a four year old child that sometimes lives with me. I'm overweight by 30-35lbs, but working on it. I'm unemployed since coming back to Canada from China, currently looking. I'm honest and extremely loyal. So loyal in fact, I've only ever been with one woman and didn't lose my virginity until the age of 30. It was my choice, but had plenty of opportunities that I turned down because I'm the type of guy that craves emotional attachment and won't sleep with someone unless I have feelings for them. Due to having a son and needing him in my life, I cannot relocate to another city, my future lady will need to be open about coming to mine. I will not abandon my son and miss all his milestones in life. I love him far too much. I don't want to waste your time, I know you wouldn't want to play games here, you are a serious person looking for a serious relationship. I am, too. But I have some important topics I need to make you aware of before we get too close emotionally(if you like me). 1. I am married, but separated. My left me in May 2015. I will get a divorce as soon as it's legally possible. 2. I have a four year old son. If you're unable to accept him, we won't work out. 3. I worked and lived in Shenzhen, China two different times. The most recent was from February 2014 to December 2014. I returned to Canada because my was failing. I have not been able to find a job since I got back, but I am actively searching. 4. Due to my son, I'm unable to relocate to your home city. I refuse to abandon him. I love him too much. 5. Due to my job situation, I cannot visit you for a very long time. You may need to visit me or move to my city(with me, if we are suitable for one another). 6. I am overweight by 30-35 pounds. I am trying to lose weight, but I could really use the help from my future special lady. If you do not like the above six topics, it's most likely that we will not work out and I'll waste your time. I am in need of my special lady to move to my home city using her own finances. I know that is asking a lot, but that is my situation. Unfortunately, I'm not looking to become penpals if you aren't attracted/interested in me. All this brutal honesty is to spare both of us wasted time and hurt feelings. But I hope you are the right one for me.
Rob
51 Brampton, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 24 - 48
Body style: Large and Lovely
Hi (please take the things I'm about to say with a grain of salt--I'm not perfect, and don't act like I'm Mr. Perfect, okay?)! I'm Rob, a youthful looking, intelligent (I hope!), considerate, loyal, fun-loving, and romantic man of mixed First Nations (i.e. North American Indian) and Irish-Canadian descent who’s looking for that special someone to spend the rest of his life with. Although I've worked for non-profit, non-governmental organizations as a policy analyst, coordinator, research officer, and project manager here in Canada most of my life, I'm tempted to move to an Asian country such as the Philippines and perhaps work as a native English legal translator because I'm fascinated by Asian culture(s), and greatly admire the way that people live their lives overseas (needless to say, I hope to learn to speak fluent Tagalog). Indeed, I’m highly attracted to the prospect of living among people such as yours who value goodness and happiness so much; moreover, I seem to get along quite well with Asian people in general and Filipina women in particular (at least the ones that I’ve known here in Canada), and greatly admire how important family seems to be to them. In any event, the thing that matters to me above all else is that I myself be a good man in all ways as much as I can, and that I treat others with fairness, compassion, and respect. Although I haven't married or had children of my own (because I was too busy with my work when I was younger), I’m now looking to settle down with a women who's smart, kind, and fun-loving--regardless of whether or not she has children (personally, I love kids--and cats and dogs, too). And just to be clear, 'smart' doesn't necessarily mean that she has to be 'book-smart' or well-educated, although I'm proud of the fact that I myself have earned a Bachelor's Degree in History and also attend two years of law school. In my spare time, I like to: read and talk about politics, cinema, philosophy, and science; see movies and go to karaoke; and meet up with friends to watch mixed martial arts fighting, play pool/billiards, or simply ‘hang out.’ In the near future, I'd also like to start going back to the gym and exercising more (to regain my natural athletic body-build and live a longer, healthier life); start walking more and maybe even take up hiking or bike-riding; and travel abroad more to see parts of the world I haven’t seen yet (so far, I’ve only been to the continental U.S.A. Hawaii, England, France, and Portugal). As for the question of who I am and what I specifically stand for, I'm an existentialistic First Nations spiritualist who's beginning to explore Buddhism; as such, I care deeply about social equity, human rights, women's equality, and Mother Earth (i.e. the environment). Don’t understand what I mean?—That’s okay: we can discuss it when we chat as we get to know one another better. Oh, yes, I have one more thing to add: I’m a fairly non-judgemental person and am flexible in terms of my ability to accommodate others or accept them despite any minor flaws they might have (after all, like I said above: nobody is perfect, myself included). This also means that I'm highly respectful of diversity in others’ cultures and outlooks on life; and am also even a bit of a romantic, as I’d love to show you (pun intended) if we ‘hit it off.’ :) In summary, at the end of the day, I obviously care more about inner attributes than outer appearances or materialistic things in general, for the most part, although I do like to live comfortably and expect to provide any future life-partner or of mine (and her family, too, of course) with a reasonable degree of added material comfort and security to what she has already achieved on her own. So, take a chance on me: at worst you may end up with a new friend rather than a lover, and you can never have too many friends, can you? And at the very best, you may find a spirited, gentle, and caring soul-mate who loves your company and shares your values. So let’s see if we’re meant to spend a lifetime together revelling in both our commonalities and our differences—I dare you! Cheers!  The most important things to me in a girlfriend or potential are a good heart and a reasonably sharp mind (her degree of 'book learning' notwithstanding); as long as a woman has these things, her education, politics, or religion don't matter to me. The reason that I'm considering dating and perhaps one day ing a Filipina woman is that they seem to me to be high-minded (i.e. tend to think about the greater good) and highly considerate, positive, and very loving of family and friends. It also doesn’t hurt that they’re usually quite physically attractive, in my opinion-- regardless of their age or body-type. (By the way, it's fine with me if any woman I date has kids because I like children (and cats and dogs, too, for that matter.) Beyond this, while it isn't crucial, it would be nice to find a woman who likes karaoke, too just like I do, and who maybe also has a good sense of humour. Oh, yes, two final things: I'm definitely not looking for an overly submissive or dependent woman, although it’s okay to be vulnerable and want to be taken care of somewhat--so long as you aren't an utter emotional wreck. Truly, I don't care about your past; I only care about you in the here and now and how we could love and support one another for the rest of our lives if we dare to make the commitment to do so. Ultimately, mutual kindness and sympathy will be the key to our romantic success, in my opinion! So, take a chance: check me out!

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