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Bob
Platinum Member
70
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Arlington, Virginia, United States
Seeking:
Female 60 - 75
Weight:
75 kg (165 lb)
Seeking My Soulmate, the Answer to My Prayers
Relationships...A belief that guides me, and I quote: “Love allows people to walk out of their isolation. Once the soul is loved, flesh and blood will grow wildly. Love is a light. Let the light guide us, accompany us, and nourish us.” To the sentiment expressed, I’m looking for a feeling of anchored comfort that evolves to mutual fondness and certainty, lasting in good times and those tougher times. Hopefully all these sentiments are yours and hopefully yet again, the stars of our basic “practical” needs of location, finances, and other things pretty much align ~ As for things about me….I’m told I look much younger than my photos and age suggest (and with energy and passion to match). I enjoy in these simple pleasures, especially when done together… 🥘 Cooking 🍪 Baking (cookies included!) 🚗 Road tripping 🏓 Playing pickleball, board games, Mah Jongg 🧩 Solving word puzzles 🖊️ Cursive writing with dip pens and fountain pens 👂 And most importantly — listening deeply…being present with someone… If all this rings your bell — and practicalities are promising — let’s meet in person to see how things are in real time. (Yes, I’d fly out if things look promising.)
Draco
Platinum Member
24
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Florence, Kentucky, United States
Seeking:
Female 19 - 27
Weight:
77 kg (169 lb)
I love dragons🐉 I play PS5 games and like bike riding, hiking, I like music, and art, favorite sport baseball, my favorite color is red and black I like horror games survival games and some others I also like anime, and horror movies, and action movies, and I do get a little nervous sometimes and a little shy but I do love to try something new and fun and relax and do something exciting
Bobby
Platinum Member
50
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Las Vegas, Nevada, United States
Seeking:
Female 29 - 36
Weight:
75 kg (165 lb)
I'll be in Cebu from May 3rd to 20th.
Love the water, mountains, bamboo, tropical forests, sandy beaches, deep conversations over a stiff drink, endless walks that go on for kilometers, wind in my hair. Not really one for religion. Believe morals out weight ru
Anthony
Standard Member
Verified
59
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Twin Falls, Idaho, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 35
Weight:
80 kg (176 lb)
Please read my whole profile before contacting me.
I have been considered being too nice, kind and caring. I am also very loyal, trustworthy, and honest, romantic, and understanding. I enjoy the outdoors, hiking, Fly Fishing, Archery Hunting, Gold Prospecting, camping in a tent or in a RV, long wa
Raul
Standard Member
46
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 40
Weight:
66 kg (145 lb)
Con respeto, Si solo buscan plata, sigan su camino
Actitud positiva sobre la vida. Hay tanto que este mundo tiene para ofrecer, solo desearía tener más tiempo para disfrutarlo. Con ese fin, me gusta rodearme de personas positivas que tengan una gran perspectiva. Me encanta viajar y mantener el cuerpo
Brandon
Standard Member
41
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Rowlett, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 44
Weight:
72 kg (158 lb)
I am looking for a woman to complete my life.
My name is Brandon and I am a loyal, hard working person who is always smiling and I always have a positive attitude. I enjoy cooking, traveling, playing golf, exercising or building things. I like to stay home, relax and watch a movie just as much a
Christian
Standard Member
41
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Dallas, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 77
Weight:
80 kg (176 lb)
Lets create a family together.
My name is Chrsitian, I was born and raised in Texas. That is my formal first name, I am not a religious person. My parents are from Mexico but live in Texas. I have two sisters and come from a tight family. I visit my family often and would like to create the same, a serious relationship that leads to marriage. I like to go out, travel, ride my bike on a trail, visit museums and art exhibits (Art Basel). Going to music festivals is my favorite hobby like EDC, Coachella, and Resistance. I speak English (Native language), Spanish (Native language), French, and Portuguese. Checking out new restaurants and bars is a hobby of mine as well, I'm definitely not a teetotaler. Having someone to explore and travel with would be fun. I work in the oilfield as an assistant engineer and have a small side business. My bachelor’s degree is in international business but did not like working in an office.I work two weeks and get one week off, so my job allows me plenty of time to travel. In the past year: Mexico City 6 times, Cancun twice, California, NYC, Colombia, Spain, Brazil, UK (Manchester and Liverpool), Ibiza, and Amsterdam. Also, I absolutely do not care about politics, “culture wars”, drama, or any negativity. The world has too many things to offer to be pessimistic.
Stuart
Standard Member
59
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Ventura, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 28 - 38
Weight:
77 kg (169 lb)
"All of me, why not take all of me..."
I am alone and want to make a difference in your life. I am well educated, retired former Advertising executive, author, and flower ranch owner. I am amiably divorced and happy, realistic, humorous, enjoy sharing control, embracing change, a devout foody, living with 2 dogs/2 cats/too many tropical fish, love reading/gardening/hiking/music/travelling. I own cozy 3-bedroom English Garden cottage 10 minutes from Pacific seashore with many fruit trees and flower gardens in southern California.
Mark
Standard Member
74
•
Delray Beach, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 55 - 60
Weight:
79 kg (174 lb)
One woman man
I am seventy two years old I live in floridand I would like to meet a woman That speak english And that wants to make a life with someone That is strictly monogamous I do not play games I have no time for games And I am interested in one thing and on
Billy
Gold Member
Verified
39
•
Toledo, Ohio, United States
Seeking:
Female 19 - 25
Weight:
75 kg (165 lb)
calls or nothing, not looking for a pen pal
I like anything outdoors. I'm an old school traditional man, I can fix just about anything. I'm very loyal and I take marriage seriously. I do require video chats if westart talking because words on a screen are not personal enough and I want to be a
Louis
Standard Member
30
•
Lafayette, Louisiana, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 25
Weight:
75 kg (165 lb)
🇩🇴🇺🇸🇵🇭 Boxing Enthusiast / Traveler
Hardworking guy from Louisiana, focused on welding school, fitness, and self-improvement. I enjoy boxing, traveling, and learning about different cultures. I’m looking for someone genuine, loyal, and supportive — a woman who values honesty and conne
Sigh'
Standard Member
Verified
41
•
Midland, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 50
Weight:
77 kg (169 lb)
A man with VALUE
I'm a retired U.S. Army Veteran with deployments to Iraq and Afghanistan, where I learned the value of discipline, resilience, and teamwork. Fitness has always been a cornerstone of my life, and after serving, I committed to turning that passion into
Cliff
Standard Member
61
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San Rafael, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 45
Weight:
75 kg (165 lb)
Looking for warm and interesting friend!
Well travelled, educated and experienced English guy, tall fit, chef, artist and designer, practical and open minded. Good communicator, likes art, music, nature and enjoys travel and learning about culture and history I will travel to Indonesia a lot for small side business. Don’t have upgraded membership now so cannot reply but will sign up so if you’re interested, especially if you are in Indonesia drop me a line T’kasih
David
Standard Member
43
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Waterbury, Connecticut, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 30
Weight:
75 kg (165 lb)
I'm a God-fearing man from Connecticut with a big heart and an even bigger personality. I work hard, live confidently, and believe life’s too short for drama or trendy buzzwords like ‘vibes only.’ 😄 I’m all about real connections—think grabbing ice cream, battling it out at an arcade, or laughing over a great conversation. Raised with traditional values, I’m seeking a kind, feminine woman from Connecticut who’s ready for something serious and shares my love for faith and family. Bonus points if you can match my wit or don’t mind me stealing the dance floor after a drink or two! If you’re genuine, love to laugh, and want a partner who’s the ‘cake’ but sees you as the ‘icing,’ let’s chat. No stage exits needed here!
David
Standard Member
65
•
Orlando, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 45
Weight:
75 kg (165 lb)
Adventure and Volunteering
World Traveler. Seeking a Soul Mate. I Love Adventure, Self-Sufficiency, Eco-Village Projects, Movies, Astrology, Yoga, Meditation, Mantra Music, Tourist Business, Volunteering, Warrior of Wisdom, Smart, Fun, Generous, Family Oriented. Affectionate
Richard
Standard Member
30
•
Annapolis, Maryland, United States
Seeking:
Female 28 - 36
Weight:
58 kg (128 lb)
What you seek is seeking you
Please read all the way through before contacting me. My future friend and hopefully my soulmate. Are you seeking the same as me? I’m working on getting my profile verified. This site is terrible. My age is wrong and it won’t let me change and my pho
Kris
Standard Member
Verified
51
•
Tustin, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 24
Weight:
80 kg (176 lb)
Very nice to meet you
If something has robots, lasers or explosions then I probably like it. I read a lot of books and watch some TV (maybe too much TV). I'm well educated, have a stable job, financially secure and responsible. I'm the oldest of six boys and am close with my family. I enjoy traveling, movies, trying new restaurants and outdoor activities (hiking, biking, camping, etc). I love the beach and warm weather. I'm a kind and honest person and believe in patience and treating others with respect. I don't like rude or negative people and try to be a positive person. I'd like to meet people who believe the same.
keith
Standard Member
59
•
Baton Rouge, Louisiana, United States
Seeking:
Female 33 - 53
Weight:
66 kg (145 lb)
Real Ladies only
Hi, I'm a 59 yr old black American, who is looking for my better half. No games no bs, I'm too old for that. I'm laid back work full time on my job. And own a small construction company. I own my house which I spend a lot of time on remodeling it,
Pato
Standard Member
60
•
Wichita, Kansas, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 45
Weight:
77 kg (169 lb)
Pato
Please if you are brave enough to write me, please be brave enough to start and carry on a conversation. Saying hello to me and then relying on me to take the conversation from there does not instill great confidence that you are a compatible woman s
Milind
Standard Member
47
•
Orlando, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 27 - 47
Weight:
80 kg (176 lb)
Looking for a long term relationship.
I own a business in high tech. I pride myself on good morals. I have two amazing daughters. We love to go to Disney (Orlando) which is 20 mins away. I love to travel. I'm fun, enjoy life, and I'm excited about the future. I like to exercise and eat healthy.
Lou
Standard Member
60
•
Anderson, Indiana, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 40
Weight:
71 kg (156 lb)
Hi, nice to meet you pretty ladies.
Looking for gf, once I find enough interest I will get a membership to message some of you. So please if interested send a like or message me to show your interested. I’m considered attractive, at least that is what ladies say, I’m fit, very nice, an
John
Standard Member
64
•
San Leandro, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 65
Weight:
77 kg (169 lb)
Looking for that special someone
well i'm quiet i love movies. I love going to the beach. I love taking walks at the evening. If I had someone to walk with besides my dog, she's a little chihuahua, I got her cuz, I got tired of talking to myself and talking to the television, laugh
Andre
Standard Member
44
•
Eureka, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 27 - 37
Weight:
80 kg (176 lb)
You + Me = We
Fit, funny, laid back guy seeks someone who is easy to get along with and has an adventurous streak. I'd much prefer a night out at a nice restaurant with quality food and drink over partying with a ton of drinks. That said, it's still fun to blow of
George
Standard Member
60
•
Tampa, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 53 - 95
Weight:
75 kg (165 lb)
Check me out!
I'm a hopeless romantic with a thirst for adventure and a passion for making memories. When I'm not working, you can find me trying out new restaurants, playing music, or planning my next travel escapade. I'm looking for someone who loves deeply, laughs often, and lives life to the fullest. If you're a kind hearted, free spirited woman who values honesty, loyalty, and good conversation, let's connect!
Andreas
Standard Member
44
•
Orange, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 20 - 39
Weight:
74 kg (163 lb)
Willing to lie about how we met
I am honest, reliable, mature, financially independent. I own my home. I work on the internet. I live a healthy and happy life. I don’t like alcohol and I don’t smoke. I like to travel a lot, I like music, gardening, the beach and to living life to t
Dennis
Standard Member
69
•
Bangor, Maine, United States
Seeking:
Female 33 - 58
Weight:
75 kg (165 lb)
One step at a time
Hello, my name is Dennis. Nice to meet you a little about myself. Witty Happy person, fun laugh a lot loves hugs affection one woman man like fishing,hiking ocean beaches just take a ride. I’m a family man not a playboy educated love music jazz soft
Ramon
Standard Member
Verified
43
•
Carson, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 24 - 39
Weight:
80 kg (176 lb)
Video chatting is important or don’t message me.
Lots of fake profiles here if you can’t video chat don’t message me unless you’re verified. ✈️ setter/ choreo 🕺 /📷/ 🎥/💯 all day/ multimedia artist/👨🎨 art/ 🍱 foodie/ traveler 🧳/ 💰married to 💵/ proud father of 2/ professional shower singer. Good vibes 😎/ positive energy/ wear my ♥️ on my sleeve/ fall hard/ love harder/ high on life.
Jeff
Standard Member
63
•
Fort Lauderdale, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 40
Weight:
73 kg (161 lb)
Cultivate loving kindness
Interesting, handsome,outgoing, but sensitive and a good listener. I am physically and financially in shape, I live near the ocean, love to travel or just stay home and snuggle. I'm a foodie person who loves to cook. I require cleanliness of myself
MoMo
Standard Member
Verified
23
•
Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 40
Weight:
70 kg (154 lb)
Looking for a Genuine connection
Two master’s degrees, one PhD done, another in progress. I work in software engineering, but life taught me more than any degree. I've walked a long road for my age now it’s time to find the piece that makes the rest of this journey feel whole.
Rolan
Standard Member
45
•
Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 25
Weight:
64 kg (141 lb)
Looking for someone to have many kids with me :)
I have a young look but I’m 45. I’ve been traveling a lot. If your interested in having kids and having a relationship send me a like! Ideally someone that wants to come to the US and get married. I would like to have many kids and support a family . Your job will be to have many kids and raise them well.
Ismael
Standard Member
53
•
North Richland Hills, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 36
Weight:
59 kg (130 lb)
Love to laugh & have a sarcastic sense of humor
Looking for friendship and see where it goes from there. God is first, then maybe you second 😋, but seriously...I'm looking for a serious long term relationship. My hobbies include: Drawing, Graphic Design/Art (Photoshop/Illustrator), Cooking, dancing, music, computer building, walking and much more.
William
Standard Member
57
•
Hilo, Hawaii, United States
Seeking:
Female 27 - 37
Weight:
78 kg (172 lb)
Adventurous man looking for a life partner.
I am an energetic and creative. I have spent my life working in the theatre arts as an actor, director and designer. I am ready for the next great adventure in my life as a writer and vloger. I am a loyal friend and mate who doesn't like to take on l
William
Standard Member
Verified
29
•
Phoenix, Arizona, United States
Seeking:
Female 19 - 40
Weight:
75 kg (165 lb)
Let's grab hands
IELTS EXAMINER WITH A BAND OF 9.0 SCORE Kindness: A kind-hearted man who shows compassion and empathy towards others. Sense of Humor: A man who can make you laugh and brings joy to your life. Integrity: Someone who values honesty, trustworthiness, and acts with integrity in all aspects of life. Ambition: A man who is driven and passionate about achieving his goals and dreams. Communication Skills: A good listener and communicator who can engage in meaningful conversations. Emotional Intelligence: A man who understands and manages his own emotions well and is considerate of others' feelings. Respectful: Someone who treats others with respect, regardless of their background or differences. Supportive: A man who supports your dreams, aspirations, and personal growth. Confidence: A man who is self-assured and comfortable in his own skin. Family Values: Someone who values and respects family relationships and understands their importance.
Andrew
Standard Member
Verified
48
•
Colorado Springs, Colorado, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 45
Weight:
66 kg (145 lb)
Sa'yo lang umiikot ang mundo ko
Seeking a woman of God! I’m not here to date—I’m here to find the last love of my life! 💖 So if you’re just swiping for fun, ay naku, keep scrolling! 😆 You gotta impress me—communication skills? A must. Supportive? Even better. A blank profile or o
Burk
Standard Member
59
•
Rocklin, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 42 - 55
Weight:
75 kg (165 lb)
A Serious Relationship That Leads to Marriage
I am an American lawyer from California, USA, with a youthful spirit and vibrant energy. I stay active through exercise and sports, and nourish my mind through learning, yoga, and meditation. I am loving, respectful, passionate, and caring. I cherish
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