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Juan
58 • Jackson, Mississippi, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 35
Occupation: Military
January 2026 visiting DC and Iloilo City!
Please No Spam Letters! My Profile is VERIFIED to Authenticate that I'm real!! I'm extremely Tall, (6'4"), Social, Very Handsome, Athletic Body (240lbs), and I truly enjoy Family, Romance, Asian Food, Karaoke, Shopping, Sports, Traveling and much mo
Roy
41 • San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 45
Occupation: Military
Strong and Confident but Humble Man
I like scuba diving, flying airplanes, hiking, going to gun range, fishing, hunting and playing strategy computer games. I can be a nerd at times lol. I am also a very good handy man, I like doing mechanical work on any machine, carpentry, electrical work, Plumbing, masonry. I am blessed with my career in Logistics and Operations management as well as being project manager and program manager. Sounds like a resume right lmao.
Kevin
45 • Tracy, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30
Occupation: Military
Just an average Joe.
I'm Kevin. I'm 45 years old. I am not married and I do not have a girlfriend. My two kids are adults now. I do not plan on having more children. I am not going to raise another man's kids. I am being up front and transparent. I am not looking for marriage at this time. I do not know if I ever will.
James
40 • West Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 45 - 99
Occupation: Military
Confident, Caring, and Ready for Something Real
At 40, I know who I am and what I want—and I’m loving this chapter of life. Friends would describe me as charismatic, grounded, and a mix of playful and passionate. I take pride in staying active, keeping a healthy lifestyle, and enjoying life’s plea
Jeffrey
48 • Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 38
Occupation: Military
Finding the Love of my Life is hard.
I like sailing and skiing. I’m a retired military man. I’ve been single for 4 years now. I was married 27 years and have 2 daughters . I’m kind, have a good heart, I like to help others. I’m a God fearing Christian and I’m loyal to my partner. I have a lot to offer for the right woman.
Charles
57 • Citrus Heights, California, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 35
Occupation: Military
Searching for a strong fit intelligent queen.
I will upgrade my profile on Monday. Expect me by May. Have a passport and be ready for the time of your life. Army veteran, selling homes in U.S. Phillipines new home base. will be traveling around the world with me. I want a trophy on my arm, a co
Louis
30 • Lafayette, Louisiana, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 25
Occupation: Military
🇩🇴🇺🇸🇵🇭 Boxing Enthusiast / Traveler
Hardworking guy from Louisiana, focused on welding school, fitness, and self-improvement. I enjoy boxing, traveling, and learning about different cultures. I’m looking for someone genuine, loyal, and supportive — a woman who values honesty and conne
Sigh'
41 • Midland, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 50
Occupation: Military
A man with VALUE
I'm a retired U.S. Army Veteran with deployments to Iraq and Afghanistan, where I learned the value of discipline, resilience, and teamwork. Fitness has always been a cornerstone of my life, and after serving, I committed to turning that passion into
James
39 • Sandusky, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 40
Occupation: Military
Savage gentleman 
I am a warrior poet of the classic sense, I served 3 tours in the Middle East. I am now a firearms instructor and I am part of one of biggest names in racing. My home is hidden away in the woods along a peaceful river, and I have my dogs baby, Magnus
Victor
45 • Sacramento, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 29
Occupation: Military
In Cebu City now!!
A guy looking to the one, not married, no kids, have a great career which I will be retiring from soon. Very close with my family, living in California. Trust and loyalty are not given but earned. I'm a 💯 all in or not kind of person. So you get all
eric
57 • Boston, Massachusetts, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 45
Occupation: Military
nice, charming and romantic guy 4 u.
recently retired from the US military now working in government. missing love and romance. I suppose I prefer an traditional type asian woman. quiet calm romantic. like to stay home cook watch movies also enjoy going out to listen to live music jazz and classical...of course lots of kiss and cuddle 😌
Mark
57 • Jacksonville, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 60
Occupation: Military
Still full of life and looking for the right one
Let me start by saying I’ve been legally separated for 10 years. I’m a respectfully funny fun loving person that is still full of life. I’m easy going and very laid back but can be very outgoing. I like watching and playing sports,TV, movies, fishing
Bryan
47 • Alexandria, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 40
Occupation: Military
Looking for a partner
I've been told I'm a sort of 'Gordon Ramsay meets Bear Grylls', with a pinch of Schwarzenegger, all packed into a dad-joke machine. Sounds fun, right? That's because it is. But don't get me wrong, I'm not screaming "IT'S RAW!" at undercooked pasta or
Griff
38 • Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30
Occupation: Military
Looking for adventure and family.
My main goal is looking to find a beautiful girl and start a family. I was in the army for 13 years and got to see a lot of the world but never where I wanted to go 😜 My good time is fishing or anything outdoors, tinkering with electronics, the
Sam
50 • Gainesville, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 43
Occupation: Military
Serious Filipina Wife for a Future Devoted Husband
Retired Army Officer loves travel and adventure. Scuba Diving and Snorkeling. I enjoy DJ ing and Leading Karaoke. Looking for Serious Relationship with love, respect and trust. I value transparency in relationships with nothing to hide. I will be a G
Max
50 • Durham, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 28
Occupation: Military
Combat Veteran seeking a beautiful maiden.
I am a retired U.S. Army Veteran. I got married to a woman I met while I was in Iraq. She was a U.S. Marine. We had 2 children but we were not a good match so sadly we divorced. I love my 2 sons. They are smart wonderful boys but they live wit
Fredrick
58 • Metairie, Louisiana, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 55
Occupation: Military
Have more than 1 photo and completed profile.
I’m a man who believes in love that’s built on trust, respect, and a genuine connection. I’m loyal to the people I care about, honest in everything I do, and a bit of a romantic who still believes in old-fashioned gestures — holding hands, surprise notes, and making someone feel truly special. I enjoy meaningful conversations, quiet moments, and laughter that comes easily. I’m looking for someone who values loyalty, honesty, and a love that feels effortless — someone ready to build something real, together. I am just an average man who is looking for a solid relationship partner. Since I have spent over 20 years in the Army, I have several tattoos and I understand if you are not interested.
Brian
55 • Van Buren, Arkansas, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30
Occupation: Military
Seeking Honest LOVE with Cute Woman 18-35
I am retired. I tend to be quiet, but I am an attentive, caring, compassionate, understanding, and fiercely loyal listener. I like riding my motorcycle, home and motorcycle improvement projects, binge-watching TV series with my significant other, and learning things online. I taught myself to build gaming computers about 14 years ago, and proud of that fact. I can repair your computer hardware or reinstall Windows on your computer as well. I don't like doing the same things every day and believe variety is the spice of life. The only exception to that is that a long-term relationship built upon love is something to be proud of as well. My idea of life is not going to the grave being safe, but rather that I took chances and end up having great memories and life lessons to take with me, even if it means failing a few times at various things.
Don
73 • Pensacola, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 38
Occupation: Military
Young at heart...
I am looking for a good, honest, reliable woman that won’t cheat to share a relaxed life with. I want the good girl I can love, the bad girl I desire, the naughty girl I lust for and the real Lady I will worship. I am a realist; I am under no false beliefs that this is some magical road to true love. I know I am an old, fat man looking for someone honest to share the rest of my life with. Preferably someone, pretty, sexy, smart, able to cook and run a home, but most of all honest. What do I have to offer? Honesty, honor, respect and financial stability. What are you looking for? An honest, trustworthy man that can give you a better and financially stable life. Do I expect either of us to fall in love online? No. Do I expect either of us to fall in love when we first meet – Love at first sight? No What I do hope and pray for is that we will both be totally honest, respectful and faithful to each other and have natural chemistry for each other. If we do that and IF we are lucky or blessed, that will grow into real, true love. If either of us is dishonest, lie or cheat then not only will love fail to appear, the relationship will end. The pic in uniform is my Retirement in 2015.
Adam
21 • Las Vegas, Nevada, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 35
Occupation: Military
Just riding the wave
I try to find joy in the small things in life, going on hikes, night drives, and of course good food. I'm a plumber in the Airforce. I'm looking for someone to give me purpose to work for. I would like to find someone to share my life with and eventually have a family. Also, I'm 22.
Calvin
39 • Tampa, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 42
Occupation: Military
Hello lovely Ladies, I'm here looking for a Queen
Well first off, hello thank you for taking the time out to look into me. I am a simple boring man but for the right Woman I am always ready to try new things. While I am a nerd who loves gaming, comics, anime, and other nerdy stuff, I am a hard working Man. So if you are willing to drag this crazy guy along on your life journey then I wanna buy ticket
Michel
29 • New York, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 25
Occupation: Military
Welcome to my profile.
-Debating where to move ( My homeland or the Philippines are my top choice at the moment so just looking around before i make the decision and will probably travel to both area for a year each to help me make the decision.)
Jacques
60 • Las Vegas, Nevada, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 26
Occupation: Military
Retired DIVER Seeks Pinai Wife! ❤️ FAT GIRLS!
Retired, Divorced, NO children, Seeks Polite Filipina wife. I love chubby/fat girls who CAN COOK! I eat a lot of vegetarian noodles dishes. Love to swim everyday, read books and watch biopic non-fiction movies. I'm allergic to dogs, cats and birds. I
Jackson
27 • Killeen, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 28
Occupation: Military
Open for long-term partner. Ask me anything 😊
I live in United States. I'm ambitious, educated, and independent. Working hard to earn high income. Great quality lifestyle is a must. I seek a woman who can motivate and inspire me to be better. I workout often and have a healthy diet. My hobbie
Randy
42 • Las Vegas, Nevada, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 40
Occupation: Military
Hello! I'm excited to meet new people!
Im 42, and retired from the US. Army. I like to travel, meet new people and eat good food! I was married for 18 years, now divorced for 2 years. I have no kids and no drama with ex. My birthday is actually in August. It won't let me change it for som
Adam
30 • Chantilly, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 28
Occupation: Military
Gamer guy
I’m pretty relaxed and enjoy having a good time. I'm pretty independent and can cook and clean and do most things for myself and I'm a workaholic but my friends told me I should start looking for a partner sooner or later so here I am to hopefully me
Armani
42 • New York, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 45
Occupation: Military
@MrArmani83
I love traveling, spending time with someone that appreciates time and life in general, would love to share my lifestyle with someone other than myself. I have a few businesses and enjoy cooking and always looking to better myself in that area and ev
Ronn
55 • Riverside, California, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 46
Occupation: Military
Please read my profile carefully. Happy Hunting!
I'm weird, crazy and loud, But DAYUMN, I'm fun! Fun loving, easy going, Mellow, Goofy, cheerful, Talkative, Considerate, gentle, and passionate. Oh, and industrious. (I like tinkering with things) Here's the test to see if you bothered to read my profile: (*And, this is VERY important to me*) I have HSV2. (*Google if you're curious*) I am looking for a woman who has the same. If you don't have it, no hard feelings. but please keep looking, and best of luck in your search! If you DO, please feel free to message me, (I'd be honored if you did!) and start the chat with '"HS2", so that: 1: I know you read my profile, 2: You have it, so I don't waste your time, or hurt your feelings, by being nothing more than a pen pal. I'm sorry, but I won't respond to anyone who doesn't follow these instructions. Best wishes in your search, and may you find happiness!
Ben
25 • Albuquerque, New Mexico, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 29
Occupation: Military
hello
Just a guy who likes to go exploring with friends and see what the world has to offer. I love playing video games and reading manga/books that look like an interesting read. I am also more introverted than extroverted. P.S you can send 1 word mess
Jim
65 • Duluth, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 55
Occupation: Military
Let's give it a try!
I am American by birth, education and choice and International by experience. To me, living life to its fullest means experiencing every moment with all senses of awareness, intelligence and authenticity. I am independent but know when to accept random kindness. I am unyielding but never unreasonable or stubborn. I am giving and give for the sake of giving only. I love traveling to all corners of the world, experiencing cultures and authentic culinary creations. I cook without recipes and spice up the dishes with creativity. I am sensitive in nature and have learned to hold steadfast realities. I dream to go back and climb the mountains in Korea under the moonlight, shower in the Philippine rain forest, dancing on Pali Lookout in Hawaii and horseback-riding along the Caribbean shore. . I learned that life is very real and practical and sometimes it seems impossible to find ones equal. But here I am, come discover me.
Bernard
69 • New York, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 79
Occupation: Military
God's Time Is Always The Best!!!
I believe so much in timing and chance, I joined this site to find true love, I have been single for many years and i think I'm ready to give love a try again as i love lots of love to share. I'm simple, Kind Hearted, Faithful, Compassionate, Easy going and Hardworking. I just want to be love and cared for.
JaredM
37 • Norfolk, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 28
Occupation: Military
Passionate soul seeking heart to heart connection!
Dedicated military professional with a passion for cooking up delicious meals, exploring the world of cars, cheering on football teams, and savoring a good movie. My tight-knit circle of family and friends means the world to me. I thrive on new adven
Michael
40 • West Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 42 - 99
Occupation: Military
Hello, my name is Michael single father
Hey, I’m Michael from Austin, Texas. Proud dad to a beautiful daughter named Chloe—she’s my world. I’m single and open to meeting someone special. If you’re into good conversation, a little Texas charm, and a man who knows how to treat a lady right,
NEW
Xinyu Young
55 • Kent, Washington, United States
Seeking: Female 50 - 85
Occupation: Military
真诚的爱
我是一名军人，信仰、纪律和人生经历指引着我。 在服役的每一个阶段，上帝都是我的依靠。 军装教会了我责任，而信仰教会了我谦逊。 我经历过许多挑战，这些挑战磨练了我的精神和品格。 我相信目标比职位更重要。 在坚强的外表下，我是一个重视祈祷和反思的人。 我明白和平是一种值得守护的珍贵祝福。 尊重、诚实和忠诚是我奉行的价值观。 我相信在尊崇上帝的地方，爱才能更好地成长。 生活教会了我耐心，服役教会了我坚韧。 我重视情感成熟和坦诚沟通。 我不急于建立人际关系；我相信上帝的安排。 善良和持之以恒对我来说很重要。 我相信倾听是一种爱的表现。 我努力让自己的言行都充满意义。 我不完美，但我信仰坚定。 我重视内在胜于外表。 我相信有意义的人际关系是建立起来的，而不是强求的。 我充满希望，虔诚祈祷，并有明确的人生目标。 如果你也重视信仰、尊重和真诚，我们或许会志同道合。
NEW
Peter
58 • Fort Myers, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 50 - 70
Occupation: Military
Yin and yang
Hey, I’m Peter. If my life had a soundtrack, it would flip between country music, 90s hits, and whatever playlist helps me get through a long run. I’m 58 and consider myself a genuine and thoughtful person who values connection, honesty, and shared experiences. You’ll usually find me outside when the weather is nice hiking, snow skating, or just taking a leisurely walk with a podcast and a coffee. When the weather isn’t cooperating, I'm the guy who finally tackles that recipe I bookmarked six months ago (current record: perfect carbonara on attempt #4). I’m handy enough to fix a leaky faucet but humble enough to call a professional if I make things worse. I enjoy a quiet night in with a great movie just as much as an evening out with friends. I'm hoping to find someone who is kind, understanding, and ready to build something real. If you're looking for a partner in crime for both the big and small moments in life, feel free to send me a message!

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