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George
64 Winston-Salem, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 42 - 53
Occupation: IT / Communications
Everybody has had heartbreak. Nobody has avoided romantic suffering. Goodness knows I’ve had my share of both (heartbreak and suffering). Of course, everything you've experienced up until now is part of who you are. It makes you the type of person that you are today. And as they say, “what does not kill you; eventually makes you strong.” So don't worry if it seems like you're forgetting lessons learned…….you are not. There's no need to feel like past relationship problems were unnecessary. After all, you learned a lot from each of them. Unlike some people who might be on this site, I am not looking for my next love. I am looking for my LAST love. For this will be my last attempt trying to find my better half. I’m looking for the one that will take me off sites like this; because I will no longer need them. I'm a single (never married but have 2 kids and 3 grand-kids) male born and raised in NC. So I still believe in opening doors for females, helping them with they coats, etc. Basically to treat a female with all the respect that they deserve. I have also been called a romantic fool. If there is any such thing. Long walks on the beach holding hands, candle lit dinners at home or outdoors, snuggling in front of fireplaces, and listening to soft music are all things that I enjoy. So are nice guys still wanted? Hopefully your answer to that question is yes. If not then I'm in big trouble. So please answer my question. Am I part of a dying breed or is there still hope for me out there???
Charles
64 Jackson, Mississippi, United States
Seeking: Female 27 - 38
Occupation: IT / Communications
I walk my own path, and I don’t need validation from anyone to know I’m on the right track. At 63, I’ve built a life based on purpose, discipline, and experiences—both academic and from the real world. When it comes to choosing a partner, I don’t rush or settle. I believe a deep, meaningful connection takes time and intention. I know what I’m looking for, and I’m not afraid to wait for it. Finding the right woman isn’t about playing hard to get; it’s about ensuring that we’re both bringing our best to the table. As the Chinese proverb goes, “A wise man adapts himself to circumstances, as water shapes itself to the vessel that contains it.” I live by this. My strength isn’t rigid, it’s adaptable. I don’t need to follow the crowd or shout to be heard. Instead, I flow through life on my own terms, steady and focused, adapting to what comes my way without losing myself. This is how I approach relationships, too—with a calm confidence that doesn’t waver. I’m drawn to a woman who knows her worth—someone who’s strong, independent, and confident in who she is. I respect that. I believe in equal partnerships, where both people lift each other up. I want someone who can challenge me, inspire me, and walk alongside me as we tackle life’s adventures together. I don’t believe in settling for something shallow or temporary. I want the real thing, and that’s worth waiting for. I’ve spent a lifetime learning—through formal education and through the school of life—and I’ve learned that relationships thrive on mutual respect, patience, and shared values. For the right woman, I’ll be loyal, steady, and reliable. But I won’t pretend I’m easy to win over. It’s not that I’m closed off; it’s that I value what’s real, and I want a partner who feels the same way. Together, we’ll build something lasting, based on trust and understanding. Being with me means you’ll always know where I stand. I’m not about games or drama. I believe in clear, open communication and building a strong foundation that can weather life’s storms. I’m not looking for someone to fill a void or to complete me—I’m looking for someone to complement my life as I hope to do hers. That said, I’m also human. I understand that love takes time, patience, and the willingness to see someone for who they truly are, flaws and all. I’m looking for someone who sees life the same way: as a journey we share, where both of us grow and learn together. So, if you’re a woman who’s strong in her own right, knows what she wants, and is ready for a meaningful, grounded connection, we may be a good match. I’m ready to share the adventure, but it’s one we’ll embark on together, with purpose and respect.
Ron
57 Baltimore, Maryland, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 55
Occupation: IT / Communications