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Robert
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64
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Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 35
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Searching for my soulmate
I am someone who loves my family, friends, and life itself. My daughter says that I am an outgoing and social person. I enjoy spontaneous adventures, but I also value peace and quiet. My friends describe me as kind, honest, considerate, and respectful. They also say I am a responsible, compassionate, fun-loving, faithful friend.
George
Platinum Member
64
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Winston-Salem, North Carolina, United States
Seeking:
Female 42 - 53
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Do you believe in nice guys?
Everybody has had heartbreak. Nobody has avoided romantic suffering. Goodness knows I’ve had my share of both (heartbreak and suffering). Of course, everything you've experienced up until now is part of who you are. It makes you the type of person that you are today. And as they say, “what does not kill you; eventually makes you strong.” So don't worry if it seems like you're forgetting lessons learned…….you are not. There's no need to feel like past relationship problems were unnecessary. After all, you learned a lot from each of them. Unlike some people who might be on this site, I am not looking for my next love. I am looking for my LAST love. For this will be my last attempt trying to find my better half. I’m looking for the one that will take me off sites like this; because I will no longer need them. I'm a single (never married but have 2 kids and 3 grand-kids) male born and raised in NC. So I still believe in opening doors for females, helping them with they coats, etc. Basically to treat a female with all the respect that they deserve. I have also been called a romantic fool. If there is any such thing. Long walks on the beach holding hands, candle lit dinners at home or outdoors, snuggling in front of fireplaces, and listening to soft music are all things that I enjoy. So are nice guys still wanted? Hopefully your answer to that question is yes. If not then I'm in big trouble. So please answer my question. Am I part of a dying breed or is there still hope for me out there???
ERIC
Standard Member
55
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Chattanooga, Tennessee, United States
Seeking:
Female 37 - 48
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Single and looking to meet someone to marry.
I am 55 and look to find someone to marry and spend my retirement with in a few years. I am simple and easy going, I don't like to fight or argue. I am very loyal I do not cheat and I expect the same from a woman. I AM NOT A RICH MAN. Hard worker I don't want someone looking for a free ride or use me. No scammers if your profile is not filled out and more than 1 photo I won't reply, I like to have an ideal who i am communicating with. Must Video chat i am tired of scammers, I want to meet someone looking for a relationship.
Charles
Standard Member
64
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Jackson, Mississippi, United States
Seeking:
Female 27 - 38
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Quiet Strength for the Woman Who Knows Her Worth
I walk my own path, and I don’t need validation from anyone to know I’m on the right track. At 63, I’ve built a life based on purpose, discipline, and experiences—both academic and from the real world. When it comes to choosing a partner, I don’t rush or settle. I believe a deep, meaningful connection takes time and intention. I know what I’m looking for, and I’m not afraid to wait for it. Finding the right woman isn’t about playing hard to get; it’s about ensuring that we’re both bringing our best to the table. As the Chinese proverb goes, “A wise man adapts himself to circumstances, as water shapes itself to the vessel that contains it.” I live by this. My strength isn’t rigid, it’s adaptable. I don’t need to follow the crowd or shout to be heard. Instead, I flow through life on my own terms, steady and focused, adapting to what comes my way without losing myself. This is how I approach relationships, too—with a calm confidence that doesn’t waver. I’m drawn to a woman who knows her worth—someone who’s strong, independent, and confident in who she is. I respect that. I believe in equal partnerships, where both people lift each other up. I want someone who can challenge me, inspire me, and walk alongside me as we tackle life’s adventures together. I don’t believe in settling for something shallow or temporary. I want the real thing, and that’s worth waiting for. I’ve spent a lifetime learning—through formal education and through the school of life—and I’ve learned that relationships thrive on mutual respect, patience, and shared values. For the right woman, I’ll be loyal, steady, and reliable. But I won’t pretend I’m easy to win over. It’s not that I’m closed off; it’s that I value what’s real, and I want a partner who feels the same way. Together, we’ll build something lasting, based on trust and understanding. Being with me means you’ll always know where I stand. I’m not about games or drama. I believe in clear, open communication and building a strong foundation that can weather life’s storms. I’m not looking for someone to fill a void or to complete me—I’m looking for someone to complement my life as I hope to do hers. That said, I’m also human. I understand that love takes time, patience, and the willingness to see someone for who they truly are, flaws and all. I’m looking for someone who sees life the same way: as a journey we share, where both of us grow and learn together. So, if you’re a woman who’s strong in her own right, knows what she wants, and is ready for a meaningful, grounded connection, we may be a good match. I’m ready to share the adventure, but it’s one we’ll embark on together, with purpose and respect.
Sheldon
Standard Member
57
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Glen Cove, New York, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 60
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Artistic Soul Seeks Connection
GGG/DDF. I possess an expansive personality coupled with a compassionate heart. I embody the essence of an artist while possessing the analytical mindset of a scientist. As an optimistic pragmatist, I approach life with passion and zest. A devoted fo
Darron
Standard Member
Verified
21
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Fort Lauderdale, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 28 - 42
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Christian Lover of Jehovah God, Life and People!
Christian man looking for a life partner, to enjoy life serving God and keeping morals, love, respect and kindness for life happiness! I love to, travel, swim, exercise, cook and bake which my whole family has lots of great cooks! I am now into healt
Daniel
Standard Member
44
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Dallas, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 28
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Just checking this out
I am a professional, hardworking man with many hobbies. I enjoy nature and learning new things. I have an 11-year-old daughter that lives with me, so I would not be able to move to the Philippines for many years. I am not close minded to having more
Jon
Standard Member
43
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Portland, Oregon, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 40
Occupation:
IT / Communications
looking for a lifetime partner
I am an introvert but I like exploring and trying new things. I am an ISTJ personality. My love languages are touch and words of affirmation. I like reading, travel, and camping. I like techno and dance music but I am not really into clubs. I prefer
Ron
Standard Member
57
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Baltimore, Maryland, United States
Seeking:
Female 40 - 55
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Looking for someone real.
A nice guy looking for love.
Swik
Standard Member
52
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Council Bluffs, Iowa, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 54
Occupation:
IT / Communications
I'd love to get to know you but take things slowly
I am very open about my life to the right person. I am funny and very giving to others. I think family is important and I love to travel. I was retired and now work full-time with another job to stay busy. I enjoy fixing things and helping others
Houston
Standard Member
Verified
27
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Naperville, Illinois, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 45
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Life is what you make it
I'm a 27-year-old living in Chicago who is looking for someone, not with anything specific in mind, but I do want to find my special someone sooner rather than later. I am just not in a rush. Will update this more, this is just all I have for being s
Adam
Standard Member
40
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Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking:
Female 22 - 39
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Looking for a pen pal/friendship
I describe myself as someone that's laid-back, chill and outgoing during my personal time. Foucused, determined and ambitious when it comes to working and taking care of business. I'm planning on visiting the Philippines in the fall season. Either
Matthew
Standard Member
29
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Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking:
Female 24 - 34
Occupation:
IT / Communications
It's simple, I'm complicated
Kind-hearted if opinionated odd-ball with a mind for God and terrible sense of humor. I value honesty and the pursuit of truth, generosity and thoughtfulness. On weekends I enjoy chilling out and watching shows, while I teach myself new skills (curre
Joshua
Standard Member
50
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San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 42
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Looking for my soulmate
Here's a suggested intro for a dating website profile: "Hi there! I'm a 49-year-old retired military veteran from Puerto Rico, currently living in Texas. Despite being retired from the military, I'm still working and keeping busy. I was born and r
genuine
Standard Member
Verified
62
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Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 29 - 70
Occupation:
IT / Communications
genuine
Please Read: Yes, I am a real person. Yes, I am single. I live in Los Angeles. Yes, I am looking for: dating, a partner, girlfriend, and marriage with the right person. I plan on going to Asia very soon. I travel. Educated, professional, intelligent.
Zero
Standard Member
44
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Miami, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 28 - 40
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Personal: I am a typical guy, some would say. I work for a firm and travel semi-frequently. I like quiet nights and watching movies but enjoy the occasional thrill — quality food is a must; however, I don't mind a sloppy Joe every now and then.
William
Standard Member
Verified
39
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Dothan, Alabama, United States
Seeking:
Female 22 - 30
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Single guy looking for love
Hello, my name is William. I am half Caucasian and half Filipino. I am here looking for my better half, and someone that will accept me for the way I am. Some of my hobbies include, drawing, binge watching tv shows, spending time with family, a
Johnny
Standard Member
Verified
54
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Pittsburg, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 45
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Lookin' for My Partner-in-Crime! Adventure awaits!
Ready for an exhilarating adventure filled with laughter? Look no further! I'm the thrill-seeking jokester with a sprinkles of sarcasm you've been searching for. Picture adrenaline-pumping escapades and hilarious moments with lotsa cuddling all wrapp
James
Standard Member
Verified
72
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Sacramento, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 40
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Are men instant gratification beasts?
Are men instant gratification beasts? The answer to my question is YES. Men and women are both instant gratification beasts. Men look at ladies for the first time in sexual matters; Women look at men as married or money material. My grandmother t
Brad
Standard Member
Verified
52
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Boca Raton, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 60
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Looking for someone to build a life with.
.....I love life and live it to its fullest, that being said Im very adventurous. From snorkeling and cliff diving in Japan, scuba diving and shark diving in all over the world to motorcycle riding all over the country, and back packing solo through Europe for 4 weeks. First time I skied and snowboarded, I was on the black diamond hills by the end of the day (and I conquered them without breaking anything!).
Mark
Standard Member
Verified
60
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East Haven, Connecticut, United States
Seeking:
Female 32 - 49
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Italian man seeking afriend on this lonely planet.
I am an IT Manager for a company and me and my team support email and computers. When I am not working, I like to go for a walk in the park, hiking, camping 🏕🔥sit by fire stove and read or just enjoy/ cook food there and watch movies on Netflix. S
Ray
Standard Member
Verified
74
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Lakeland, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 80
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Looking for friends and one long term relationship
Most people who know me describe me as a "nice guy." I'm quiet except when a subject interests or excites me. I have an interesting sense of humor. I'm a retired computer software specialist and former helicopter pilot. As a retiree I've spent sever
Stephen
Standard Member
43
•
Kansas City, Missouri, United States
Seeking:
Female
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Don’t confuse comfort with happiness
I’m hoping to meet someone to share my experiences with. I enjoy sports and keeping healthy. I’m also big into sci-fi or fantasy. I enjoy hiking, as well as a good book or binge worthy show. My ideal day would revolve around coffee, antiquing
Bob
Standard Member
Verified
50
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Phoenix, Arizona, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 38
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Renaissance Gentleman
I’m originally from the windy city, sweet home Chicago, home to the political blowhard. Blown from the city like a leaf in the wind I’ve lived in 11 states and 1 foreign country. I've served in military and been a civilian. I've had a home and been homeless. I've attended a community college, a liberal arts college and law school. I've learned to appreciate the challenges and opportunities we all face through such varied experiences.
David
Standard Member
Verified
39
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Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 39
Occupation:
IT / Communications
The best things happen when you least expect it.
***update 11/11/23*** if you are serious we can meet in metro manila. have lunch or dinner and get to know each other. i am here for business and will be leaving soon. so if you are serious lets chat, video call, then meet in person. Hi there, I
Chris
Standard Member
Verified
56
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San Diego, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 60
Occupation:
IT / Communications
New to this site
A little silent at first, but warm up quickly. Enjoy working at my job and helping the company grow. The main picture is from December 2022, The company asked me to play Santa at our holiday party. The second picture is the most recent of me.
Nathan
Standard Member
41
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Torrington, Connecticut, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 40
Occupation:
IT / Communications
hello world
I graduated in Computer Science and Engineering, with a Mathematics minor. I do software programming and web development for a small IT company. I also tutor programming and math. I enjoy learning new things. I spend a lot of time studying topics like Philosophy, Politics, Economics, Psychology, and Sociology.
Jeremy
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Verified
48
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Las Vegas, Nevada, United States
Seeking:
Female 37 - 53
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Well hello
My name is Jeremy and I have been in Vegas since 2017. Interesting city that has plenty of things to do which has grown on me. A few things about me are that I do have a daughter that still lives me, I do enjoy going to the gym, I am originally from
Reginald
Standard Member
Verified
55
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Manassas, Virginia, United States
Seeking:
Female
Occupation:
IT / Communications
I'm looking for a magical relationship.
I'm a special guy. Special because I treats others as I would like to be treated. I feel compassion for others and try to help others whenever I can. I am a family man. I don't go to clubs... without my partner. I prefer to spend time with my
Adrain
Standard Member
Verified
48
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Waco, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 38
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Here looking for my soul mate.
I'm loyal, understandable, and kind. My best quality is the ability to find the good in almost in situation. I love to laugh and have funny. I'm looking for someone who is loves herself, respects herself, and can put the same into her relationship. W
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