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Binyam
33 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 41
simple guy with simple life. scammers back off !
Music is like an oxygen to me . am always Chasing the good vibes , loves playing guitar, hiking , deep conversations, romantic nights with massage. Looking for a woman who is emotionally matured and believe in respecting each other
TJ
34 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female
Black American with an athletic build. Masculine, steady, and generous—with a big heart and a provider mindset. I move with intention: loyal, laid-back, romantic, and the type to keep you laughing even on the tough days. Communication is everything to me—I don’t let us go to sleep mad. We talk it out, choose each other, and keep the home peaceful. I’m building for legacy, not likes—health, family, and experiences over flexing. I show love through action: planning real dates, pulling up with flowers, curating the playlist, forehead kisses, late-night talks, and weekend adventures. I cook, I plan, I protect, I provide. You’ll always know where you stand with me. I’m drawn to a feminine, soft, caring woman—kind, emotionally intelligent, and ready for teamwork. If you’re a mother, you’re respected here. I’m patient about pacing: slow burn, deep roots, and consistent effort. I value reciprocity, loyalty, and peaceful energy. We pour into each other—your softness and grace, my leadership and stability. No games, no situationships, just two people choosing to love with intention. Lifestyle: I stay active, keep my mind right, and make room for joy—date nights in (chef nights, massages, movies), date nights out (salsa class, new restaurants, live music), Sunday markets, and quick getaways. I’m passport-ready and open to relocating to the Philippines for the right forever. Non-negotiables: honesty, accountability, faith in growth, and a “we over me” mindset. I’m the ride-or-die who shows up in the ups and the downs, and I’ll keep the house warm, safe, and full of laughter. You be my peace, I’ll be your rock—and we’ll build something our kids can be proud of. If you’re ready for calm leadership with a big heart and intentional love, say hello.
Christopher
60 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 55
Hi! Seeking a full figured woman are my favorit.
Hard working nice guy looking for a nice girl for friendship and dating. A woman who works in Agriculture,or a buisness woman. I work in agriculture as a beekeeper. I am also a craftsman and work as a building contractor. I build and remodel homes.
Parker
26 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 29
Adventure seeker looking for my better half!
I’m a laid-back guy who loves staying active, exploring new spots around town, and diving into good conversations. Bonus points if you love spontaneous road trips, good coffee, and laughing till your stomach hurts.
James
72 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 36 - 65
Are adults instant gratification beasts?
Please read my entire profile before writing to me. Please tell me which is better Manila or Cebu?. Are adults instant gratification beasts? YES. Most men and women are creatures of instant gratification. Men look at ladies for the first time in s
Cliff
61 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 55
A Taste for Something Exotic and Diverse
Living in Northern California, I thrive in cultural diversity, enjoying foods, beverages, and people from different ethnic groups. I produce and host a successful podcast that keeps me busy and allows me the freedom to enjoy various activities.
Brian
45 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 45
100% percent Chocolate 🍫🍫🍫🍫
Handsome successful black man that's looking for that one outside of America......
Walter
45 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 55
Honesty is the best policy
Responsible, passionate and sensual. Open minded, honest and not one to judge. Looking to connect with people who are down to earth, caring , and understanding
Rashaad
46 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 33
God, Love, and Family
I'm a very respectful and nice man. I enjoy cooking sometimes. I have a great sense of humor, and a playful spirit. I can also be very serious when need be.
Chris
43 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 43
I'm an aviation mechanic engineer. I fly frequently. I work for united airlines and I go to the philippines.I'm looking for a wife.
Donnie
63 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 25
Looking for a real woman
I like to do things that make people happy. And enjoy life to it's fullest.
sheed
21 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 19 - 30
I’m a hard working guy, I work a lot to make my money and provide. I also like gaming whenever I’m not working just to kinda by pass time. I go gym too.
travis
38 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 39
Mickey
60 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 65
If your not from my area ,don't bother contacting
country boy, pretty good cook,love the outdoors, dogs,gardening, fishing, motorcycle, street fairs
jimmyzig
75 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 54
Hey its me jimmyzig1stop by and say hi
Kind man with big heart always active outdoors enjoy South East Asia Travel
Jack
59 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 47
In Search of Something Special
Easy going Enjoy outdoors Like to cook Like to travel
Edward moody
61 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 33 - 53
Im caring, independent honest and loving
I'm a good person very independent
Oliver
67 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 45 - 65
Single order black man seeking companionship.
Retired at the moment seeking companionship looking for my best friend perhaps lifelong partner.
Vinni
65 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 32 - 50
Single.
Good mind and good 💓 with good health as well as an independent thinker.
al
61 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 32 - 64
The next stage of my life is starting …
Easy going, bookish been to The Philippines many times for work. Mostly Subic / Olongapo…
Bingo
42 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 45
Haralambos
34 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 32
Sean
34 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 52
Jay
31 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 40
stanley
35 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 33
I’m a chill laid back type of person . I love to enjoy life I enjoy hang with family & friends. I’m a big Foodie I love music ask me for more?
Jetton
66 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 57 - 75
Mr. Chocolate bar
60 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 62
Matthew
65 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 45 - 54
Tony
40 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 41
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Anthony
43 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 50
louie
27 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 36
shorty
45 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 45
jay
43 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30
ridam
36 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 42
Antonio
40 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 19 - 44

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