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David
65 • Bangor, Maine, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 55
Appearance: Attractive
BIG NEWS. BE SURE TO READ MY ENTIRE PROFILE!
Retired wildlife officer (game warden),, author, adventurer, great cook, intelligent and funny. I am very real and can easily be found on the internet to verify who I am. I have never been married, no children, and live alone. I have not been in a relationship for a long time, and it’s not because I was in prison or stranded on a deserted island in the middle of nowhere. My story is very unusual and one that I would relive if necessary. I took care of my elderly mother for nearly 20 years before she passed away in October 2024 at the age of 96. Telling you that I took care of her with no help from other family members would sound like sour grapes. So, I’ll just chalk it up to a fact of life. I live in a house and in an area I love, surrounded by the Maine woods and plenty of woodland creatures. I’m only about a half hour from the Atlantic Ocean and as much fresh lobster as you can eat! Oh, but I just learned some bad news, so in the spirit of coming clean, here it is: I was recently diagnosed with Lyme disease, and it is not going to be an easy road to recovery. For those who don’t know what Lyme disease is, I was bitten by a tick some time ago that was bearing a nasty strain of bacteria. Ticks are like mosquitoes and lamprey eels, in that they don’t seem to serve any useful purpose! I’ll be fine, but it’ll definitely take some time.
Bob
70 • Arlington, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 60 - 75
Appearance: Attractive
Seeking My Soulmate, the Answer to My Prayers
Relationships...A belief that guides me, and I quote: “Love allows people to walk out of their isolation. Once the soul is loved, flesh and blood will grow wildly. Love is a light. Let the light guide us, accompany us, and nourish us.” To the sentiment expressed, I’m looking for a feeling of anchored comfort that evolves to mutual fondness and certainty, lasting in good times and those tougher times. Hopefully all these sentiments are yours and hopefully yet again, the stars of our basic “practical” needs of location, finances, and other things pretty much align ~ As for things about me….I’m told I look much younger than my photos and age suggest (and with energy and passion to match). I enjoy in these simple pleasures, especially when done together… 🥘 Cooking 🍪 Baking (cookies included!) 🚗 Road tripping 🏓 Playing pickleball, board games, Mah Jongg 🧩 Solving word puzzles 🖊️ Cursive writing with dip pens and fountain pens 👂 And most importantly — listening deeply…being present with someone… If all this rings your bell — and practicalities are promising — let’s meet in person to see how things are in real time. (Yes, I’d fly out if things look promising.)
Sigh'
41 • Midland, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 50
Appearance: Attractive
A man with VALUE
I'm a retired U.S. Army Veteran with deployments to Iraq and Afghanistan, where I learned the value of discipline, resilience, and teamwork. Fitness has always been a cornerstone of my life, and after serving, I committed to turning that passion into
Marcus
53 • Orlando, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 39 - 50
Appearance: Attractive
Looking for my soul mate! NEED TO DO A VIDEO CALL.
Divorced father of 4 amazing girls. All them are adults now my youngest is 20 years old and up all the way to 30. I like the beach, theme parks, watch a good movie, dining out and gym. PLEASE NEED TO DO A VIDEO CALL WITH YOU BEFORE STARTING TO CHAT. Thank you.
Cliff
61 • San Rafael, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 45
Appearance: Attractive
Looking for warm and interesting friend!
Well travelled, educated and experienced English guy, tall fit, chef, artist and designer, practical and open minded. Good communicator, likes art, music, nature and enjoys travel and learning about culture and history I will travel to Indonesia a lot for small side business. Don’t have upgraded membership now so cannot reply but will sign up so if you’re interested, especially if you are in Indonesia drop me a line T’kasih
Mateo
26 • Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 33
Appearance: Attractive
Looking for love on an international scale
Huge interest in new kinds of music Been playing saxophone for 14 years. 🎷 Fine wine and spirits 10 years amateur photography 📸 Weight lifting 🏋️‍♀️ Outdoors and Nature are my element 🌿 Guatemalan 🇬🇹 Born, US 🇺🇸 & Swiss🇨🇭Spirit
InDaMoment
63 • Orange, California, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 50
Appearance: Attractive
Read carefully and all of my profile details,..🌹?...
Life is short and we have one chance at it so make it count! I live life with passion in all aspects, God, family, work and play...I try to have balance. With that said, family and loves ones are very important to me as they should be for you. I a
Kevin
63 • Folsom, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 18
Appearance: Attractive
Are you the one I’m looking for?
I am a happily retired American man. I like to travel and vacation. For many years I restored houses and classic cars, and I am a singer. But now my focus is to find my soulmate and enjoy this great life together. I have spent many years working on myself to be here. Now it is time to enjoy
Jose
33 • Arlington, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 21
Appearance: Attractive
Buscando 😍 🥰😘 amor
Soy una persona apasionada por la aventura y el viaje, y me encanta compartir mis intereses con otras personas. Además de disfrutar de la música y la danza, también me gusta probar nuevos alimentos y descubrir nuevas culturas a través de la comida. He tenido la oportunidad de trabajar en diversos campos, como la enseñanza y el entrenamiento deportivo, y actualmente soy dueño de una empresa de tecnología que especializarse en Inteligencia Artificial. Me apasiona lo que hago y me esfuerzo por aprender y crecer continuamente. Como persona, soy amoroso, cariñoso, sensible, valoro la comunicación y la confianza mutua en una relación. Estoy buscando a alguien con quien pueda compartir mi vida y construir un futuro juntos! 💕
Steve
49 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 36
Appearance: Attractive
Don't be afraid to look for love
I was raised with values and consider myself a gentleman, and I know how to treat a women. I am very family oriented, love kids and animals. I am very creative, funny, intelligent, passionate, funny, honest, and loyal. I am ready and excited for my next chapter and I always try and live life to the fullest. I am looking for someone special to share the adventures of life with. I love to travel and explore new places. I also like to stay in sometimes and cook a intimate meal for my girl accompanied with a great glass wine and lots of laughs. I have Big heart and always strive to better myself in all areas of life. I do believe behind every great man is an even greater women.
Todd
45 • Blacksburg, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 36 - 48
Appearance: Attractive
Looking for a life time lover and companion.
Recently retired engineering professional that is 67 but thinks and feels like I’m 45. I will tell any nice lady more once we establish a potential permanent connection. Please don’t waste my time or yours. I’m not looking for a hook up. They are e
Marco
54 • Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 40
Appearance: Attractive
Hello, everyone
This the hardest part of this questions, I really don't know what to say about myself. I will let you know once we start to communicate. I will not reply, if you don't have a picture on your profile. I like to know who I'm communicating with.
James
39 • Sandusky, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 40
Appearance: Attractive
Savage gentleman 
I am a warrior poet of the classic sense, I served 3 tours in the Middle East. I am now a firearms instructor and I am part of one of biggest names in racing. My home is hidden away in the woods along a peaceful river, and I have my dogs baby, Magnus
David
43 • Waterbury, Connecticut, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30
Appearance: Attractive
I'm a God-fearing man from Connecticut with a big heart and an even bigger personality. I work hard, live confidently, and believe life’s too short for drama or trendy buzzwords like ‘vibes only.’ 😄 I’m all about real connections—think grabbing ice cream, battling it out at an arcade, or laughing over a great conversation. Raised with traditional values, I’m seeking a kind, feminine woman from Connecticut who’s ready for something serious and shares my love for faith and family. Bonus points if you can match my wit or don’t mind me stealing the dance floor after a drink or two! If you’re genuine, love to laugh, and want a partner who’s the ‘cake’ but sees you as the ‘icing,’ let’s chat. No stage exits needed here!
Victor
45 • Sacramento, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 29
Appearance: Attractive
In Cebu City now!!
A guy looking to the one, not married, no kids, have a great career which I will be retiring from soon. Very close with my family, living in California. Trust and loyalty are not given but earned. I'm a 💯 all in or not kind of person. So you get all
Jeff
60 • Boynton Beach, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 50
Appearance: Attractive
Highly successful .. Gentleman, charming, handsome
Highly successful .. Gentleman, charming, handsome, chivalrous, passionate, kind, creative, empathetic, romantic, affectionate, supportive, honest, trustworthy, loyal. Blue eyes. Love kids. dining, outdoors, Netflix, travel. Love to cook, especially Thai, Chinese, seafood, and Tex-Mex. (Fav to make is sushi). Love to learn new things - art, history, science and culture.
Royce
67 • Marysville, Washington, United States
Seeking: Female 45 - 65
Appearance: Attractive
Read my Profile. It pretty much says it all.
ETA: First, let me start by saying if after reading my profile and aren't a paying member yet, then sign up and let's talk. I'll reimburse you if we turn out to be a fit. Secondly, I'll tell you right now that if you ever ask me for money before w
Mike
39 • Levittown, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 59
Appearance: Attractive
I’m calm ‘cause I’ve seen storms. That’s New York.
Humor is important no negative Nellys. Me? Born and raised in New York City 🗽 — now livin’ in the suburbs 🏡. I don’t sugarcoat I’m direct — and I’m not here to babysit feelings. If you're overly sensitive, or can’t handle sarcasm — I'm not for you. I’m here to find a woman — not a daughter. If you can't take a joke or hold a real conversation — imagine how that plays out in real life. If you're smart, mature, and know how to move like a woman, we might click I talk fast, think sharp, good listener but I got no patience for nonsense. I’ve had a Filipina friend for 8 years, who lives in Dubai — so I get the culture. But let’s be real: a lot of women on here want everything overnight. I’m not your ATM 💸. And just cause you say "hi" doesn’t mean I’m sending money or gifts right away. That’s not how this works. But if you’re the right woman? Solid, loyal, consistent? I’ll provide 💵 — real talk. I’ll help with your visa, help build your life up, and give you peace you’ve never had 🌟. But you gotta bring something too: peace, patience honesty and loyalty 🙅‍♂️ Once you’re in America with me, I don’t want you to work — unless you have a carrerr. I take care of mine. But in return, I want a woman who keeps herself lookin’ good, , and stands beside me like a queen 👑 If you think I’m too rough — go find yourself a soft broke dude 🤷‍♂️ I’m not that. I’m direct — I say what I mean. Don’t expect me to stop talkin to others unless we're exclusive and don’t expect loyalty if you’re out here sendin private pictures to 10 other guys. If you don’t speak fluent English, that’s cool. I can translate — for now with an app. But I’m not doing that forever. You wanna come to America? Learn the culture. Learn the language. 🇺🇸 If you send me your WhatsApp just to ask for load/data 📲 — you already lost. I'm from NYC, I spot scams before they even open their mouth. Real talk? This world don’t hand out peace to men — we build it, brick by brick, for everyone else. Women get the smiles, kids get the joy… men just get asked to keep it together. 💯
RAM
67 • Sparks, Nevada, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 50
Appearance: Attractive
Let's talk SERIOUS....it's now or never!!!
I AM A DUAL US-RP CITIZEN LOOKING FOR A BETTER & LESS STRESSFUL LIFE IN PI.... MY GOAL IS TO "LOVE" AGAIN FOR THE LAST TIME and AS MEANINGFUL AS WE CAN MAKE IT TOGETHER!!!.... I PREFER HEALTHY & INTERESTING CONVERSATIONS..... .NO SINGLE SENTENCE Q&A PLEASE?? 🙏😊🙏😊
Greg
38 • Nashville, Tennessee, United States
Seeking: Female 19 - 30
Appearance: Attractive
Keep your face always toward the sunshine
Well I'm a lover of music. I've played guitar and sung for over 20 years now. Use to do it all the time and still love it when I have the time. I also love traveling and experiencing new things and places. I don't have anything beyond a basic membership currently.
Christy
56 • Las Vegas, Nevada, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 50
Appearance: Attractive
Just casually looking around
I am an American, 57 years old originally from Tampa, Florida. I am an Airline Pilot. Please read my full profile before asking me questions that I have already posted here, such as I live in Las Vegas, Nevada, United States, I'm Widowed, I'm seeking Female 30 - 45 within 250 kms of Philippines, and I'm looking for Penpal, Friendship, Romance / Dating, Long Term Relationship, probably in that order. If you are younger than 30, then do not bother. If you are older than 45, that can be taken under consideration. And if you ask what I'm looking for, read more on my profile here.
David
65 • Orlando, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 45
Appearance: Attractive
Adventure and Volunteering
World Traveler. Seeking a Soul Mate. I Love Adventure, Self-Sufficiency, Eco-Village Projects, Movies, Astrology, Yoga, Meditation, Mantra Music, Tourist Business, Volunteering, Warrior of Wisdom, Smart, Fun, Generous, Family Oriented. Affectionate
Chris
63 • Hillsboro, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 60 - 78
Appearance: Attractive
Looking For A Good Woman To Complete My Life
I'm a kind-hearted and thoughtful gentleman who believes in honesty, loyalty, and meaningful connection. I enjoy good conversation, quiet evenings, and making the people I care about feel valued and supported. I’m emotionally mature, dependable, and ready for a committed relationship built on trust, respect, and shared dreams..
Walter
60 • Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 55
Appearance: Attractive
POSSIBLY SOMEONE WHO WANTS TO TRAVEL WITH ME?
Single mature male with good career and education. Enjoy motorcycle riding, dining out, traveling, cooking and family. I would love somebody with a visa, but if you don’t have one we can try and get one so I can let them come and visit and travel aro
John
53 • San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 45
Appearance: Attractive
Searching 4 Filipina wife- no more USA ladies 🤣
Many fakes & scammers here. Telling me: “Send me money for SIM card- Send me money for Cell Data- Family Emergency send me money” ** I donate to church- I do not donate here. If you are real - contact me on WhatsApp Video - if you don’t do that, I
AL
42 • Greeneville, Tennessee, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 35
Appearance: Attractive
Fun & laid back guy looking for REAL relationship
I can’t see likes, so please message me. If your pics are heavily filtered, please move on. I’d like to see what you REALLY look like. I’m not paying for POF premium, so if you wanna hit that like button, be sure to send me a message. Laid back a
Michael
50 • Richmond, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 31
Appearance: Attractive
Professional Chef, Writer & Businessman. Im Good, Kind, Tall, Fit,, Intelligent, Romantic, Articulate & Funny. Love to Travel, Cook, Adventurous but Simple. Looking for a Queen not a Princess to babysit, my match, a best friend & “my person” in this life. Looking for something real & forever…
Jason
50 • Fountain Hills, Arizona, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 44
Appearance: Attractive
Please read my full profile before messaging me.
I am dedicated and trustworthy. I am not here to play games or buy crypto. If you are looking for money or games please do not waste my time. I do not celebrate christmas, easter or halloween and would not allow any of those celebrations in my hom
Don
30 • Brandon, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 35
Appearance: Attractive
Curiosity and hope. Sometimes the search can tire.
Hi my name is Don, it’s nice to meet you. I am currently 30, and I do live in Florida, USA at the moment. I recently moved here due to my job relocating me. I enjoy reading, gaming, scuba diving, hiking, photography and baking. It’s been some t
Branden
26 • University City, Missouri, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 99
Appearance: Attractive
Lost boi trying to find his Neverland
A homebody philosopher with a flair for flirtation, this nerdy, plump romantic wields sarcasm like a sword and analogies like a superpower. I am the kind of guy who'll roast you with love, quote anime mid-debate, and have you laughing, thinking, and
Sean
49 • Fort Lauderdale, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 45
Appearance: Attractive
Exploring love under the Colombian sky
I’m an easygoing and adventurous man who loves exploring new experiences, whether it’s diving into different cultures through food, art, and music or feeling the thrill of a great JDM car show or a sport bike ride. Originally from Jamaica, I bring a
Marko
54 • Hilo, Hawaii, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 60
Appearance: Attractive
A good hearted easy going man looking to meet a lo...
DONT CONTACT ME IF ALL YOU WANT IS LINE OR WHATSAPP or TELEGRAM* I do not use those apps * Aloha from Hawaii , i'm a very big hearted man whom is very sincere , honest and passionate, man whom is romantic and intimate with a high sex drive. I'm very
Johan
55 • Augusta, Maine, United States
Seeking: Female 31 - 40
Appearance: Attractive
Trustworthy loyal, respectful, peaceful, loving
I am seeking a partner for a lifelong relationship . I am an artist, a musician I work in IT, hoping to find a lady who has interest in music And art. I live in Maine and I’m interested in living in Palau or the Philippines I would keep my home that
Richard
30 • Annapolis, Maryland, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 36
Appearance: Attractive
What you seek is seeking you
Please read all the way through before contacting me. My future friend and hopefully my soulmate. Are you seeking the same as me? I’m working on getting my profile verified. This site is terrible. My age is wrong and it won’t let me change and my pho
Jason
35 • Owensboro, Kentucky, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 41
Appearance: Attractive
Searching for an Asian woman
I’m 58 years young. Have been told I look in my 40’s. I take very good care of myself. I’m self-aware of who I am and who I strive to be. Intelligent and loving. Very respectful and enjoy my life. I am unable to conceive a child with anyone. I a

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