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gerudo
44 Jersey City, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 29
David
53 Jersey City, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 43
Here goes....I am Sephardic by blood, but have no true affiliations, and was raised Unitarian until I was kicked out of Unitarian Sunday School for asking too many tough questions (I think we had a fundamentalist rogue agent in the Sunday School as my teacher). I do not have an ethnic or religious identity to wrap myself in, and, let's be frank, it is creepy and weird in our society to cleave to mere whiteness. I am a mutt. But I have always craved the sense of kinship that others seem to be happy observing on the basis of essentially irrelevant historical matters (see Kurt Vonnegut and Daffodil 278 - HUGE points if you know what I am talking about). I think humans are essentially tribal, though, and I yearn for my tribe. And we exist, my nameless and casino free tribe. We know each other almost instantly, and take great solace in encountering any member sprinkled through the diaspora of our border-free homeland. Smart, funny, playful, irreverent, good, fair, painfully aware of not being like the other mouth breathers (and I do NOT mean that in a conceited or arrogant way - them knuckle scrapers appear happy, for the most part, and I am more than a little jealous). In fact, we love cultures, including our own, but always stand a little outside of them – and so spend time traveling and living abroad because it is so much easier to explain the subtle difference to others (with whom we easily integrate and who embrace us) by simply being able to state, “I am foreign.” And they can let it go with “Que esperabas…ese chico es mas Yanqui que el Tio Sam mismo! Jah Jah Jah!” Finding another member of the Tribe almost always feels like, "Oh, thank GOD! Another member of the tribe. I was about to scream..." So...I am always looking for members of my tribe, and anyone I will love truly, madly, deeply will already know in her bones....The Way of My People. The game is always afoot with me. It is ALL play - or can be! I am looking for someone who gets it...with a nod or a silent look. We are connected, and share an understanding lost on others. A nation of two. I am looking for someone I can admire, whose admiration, in turn, would mean a lot to me. Despite cherishing silent connections, I value words and ideas, especially as wielded by an intelligent, informed companion. I speak several languages and am fascinated by how they are all connected. And you can only learn a language, or model a mate's mind if you listen. Blather about what fascinates you, and I will hang on every word - but poorly informed loud mouths are like nails on a chalkboard to me (and you). I am a secret science nerd...OK, maybe the secret is not as well kept as I would prefer to believe! My friends almost all say I am one of the funniest people they have ever met...my humor runs dark and fearless, ironic and absurd, but true to the point of pain sometimes. And I love nothing more than unleashing torrents of unexpected and uncontrolled laughter into a shared pool of helpless giggles. I love humanity, but am a misanthrope too. A gregarious loner. As I say, I am looking for members of my tribe. If that makes any sense, we are off to a great start! I am looking for a true partner. By that I mean a true two way street. If I love you (and that's what I am looking to do), I will always be seeking to improve your life experience. I will want you to WANT to do the same for me. I will never demand it. But I have hopefully learned that it is fair for me to expect mutuality. And I savor physical intimacy of most types and intensity...if you wouldn't eventually...shortly come to that position and stay there, we probably are not a true match. I am a different breed of cat. A manly man, and a dude, in every sense (except sports spectation - why? I don't know the players, they are not from the towns they represent...lost on me), but DIFFERENT. I am a former professional artist, and have an understanding of beauty that is more permissive than Vogue Magazine for sure, but self-respect should glow from you. In addition to the tribal attributes, you should have a healthy appetite for what we have been given on this amazing and exceptional planet for a short time. So there is the full can of my canned but at least considered profile! Your turn, which you may skip if you like!
Kevin
48 Jersey City, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 40
jorge
52 Jersey City, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 40
Donnie
28 Jersey City, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 40
Bryan
36 Jersey City, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 36
J
48 Jersey City, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 50
Kevin
50 Jersey City, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: 30 - 52
hi
37 Jersey City, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 36
jose
36 Jersey City, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 35
Carlos
55 Jersey City, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 30
david
43 Jersey City, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 36

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