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James
60 Lakewood, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 52 - 52
Sometimes there are phases in a person's life when even if he is nice to everyone and is always there for others in times of his need no one bothers. In fact often people simply insult them or abuse them even if they are not wrong. See, you are not being nice to them because you want them to be nice to you in return. You are being nice to them because that's what defines you, being nice to others. Why would a genuinely humane person be rude to someone without any reason? Be grateful that you are not one of these rude people. You are much better than them as a human being. But as they say, anything in excess is absurd. Like if someone slaps you on one cheek for no reason, lend the other cheek. I don't agree with this philosophy. So, you don't have to be extra nice to a person when you see him being rude to you.You have a self respect. Don't let anyone strike that, not even yourself. You don't have to be too rude to them like they do as that would degrade you to their level which you obviously don't want. You can just stop being nice to them, just give them a cold shoulder. Behave as if you would to a random person you pass by. You are neither good nor bad to them. Sometimes if needed, reply in a way neither too rude nor too gentle. But even before replying, think for a while whether the person or his deed is worthy of your reply or not. Act accordingly. Coming to the illness part, we are humans, so we seek love and care from people around us but not all of us are lucky all the time. Learn that this is life. Be strong enough to take care of yourself even if no one bothers about you. If someone is there to look after you, be happy, but if someone isn't, be happier as that is teaching you to be self dependent and this may not look good to you now. But one day in the future, when you are out of the current place into somewhere else, maybe a new place where you don't know anyone, not even the local language, you will be glad that you have had already learnt to take care of yourself all alone. The fact that others are not helpful or caring should not make you do or be the same. Firstly, it's not a give and take business. And secondly, you should always try to do the morally correct thing even if it means walking against the tide. At least at the end of the day,you will have a peaceful sleep knowing that you have done the ethically correct deed and YOU are with You, even if no one is there. Conscience is the best court of justice within us. Be confident, helpful, supportive, nice, every good thing you can be to others without expecting anything in return. Though I say this, I know when it comes to you needing someone, it hurts and it hurts real bad. But don't lose yourself. Don't lose your confidence. At such times, tell yourself, "I can do this by myself. I am strong enough to do it all alone. I am a self dependent person and this will teach me to be more of that." Also, after you have learnt this, you will see at a later stage in your life, when you expect yourself to be all alone, you will find at least one person always beside you some way or the other.Even if one goes, another will come. It appears like God is sending them for you. He will never leave you alone. When He feels you can manage on your own, He doesn't send anyone, but when He sees you can't he sends them. Have faith in Him and in yourself. Be confident, helpful, supportive, nice, every good thing you can be to others without expecting anything in return.
Bill
65 Lakewood, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 31 - 69
scott
51 Lakewood, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 40
Dareus
31 Lakewood, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 34
warren
68 Lakewood, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 35
Robert
58 Lakewood, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 51
Mike
62 Lakewood, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 46
Steve
38 Lakewood, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 35
Romeo
22 Lakewood, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 19 - 32
Jerome
28 Lakewood, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 25
Tyler
26 Lakewood, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 19 - 30
BRIAN
55 Lakewood, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 43