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Dale
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57
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Rossendale, Lancashire, United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 20 - 35
Drink:
Don't drink
Looking for honest girl
Friendly and outgoing person who's reliable and honest,easygoing and generous hearted. When I find my girl she will have all my attension and affection,hugs,kisses,I like cuddling together,I've been told I sweet,I will share my whole life with her,I would respect her,love her for who she is,I am honest person,I have been hurt on here so please don't play games with me I am emotional person who is easily hurt .
Ally
Standard Member
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52
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Wandsworth, London (Greater), United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 18 - 24
Drink:
Don't drink
Just passing by thru life, and life is but dream.
I recall hearing that when the 1 God made souls he made them in pairs, but in this life it is not assured we will meet. How sad that is, but as time passes i reflect this must be true. In someones profile they asked, "tell me what does love me
Stormy
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61
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Retford, Nottinghamshire, United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 45 - 59
Drink:
Don't drink
if you want to be loved. start by loving yourself
IF YOUR TRYING TO SCAM ME, I’ll block you immediately. I’m honest, kind, caring Dependable And above all loyal. I may not be perfect, but maybe perfect for you. I’m a multi millionaire but I don’t suffer fools gladly. a lot of women will want to c
Godwin
Standard Member
24
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Lambeth, London (Greater), United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 40 - 65
Drink:
Don't drink
Be happy with what you have while working
To be in love means being patient because love is like a wonderful feeling of compassion and satisfaction. It should be given respect and trust and it should receive that love back because the best proof of love is trust. True love is the greatest th
Brian
Standard Member
34
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Newcastle-upon-Tyne, Tyne & Wear, United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 20 - 44
Drink:
Don't drink
I Am 35 not 33
I'm in the UK, British Born and Bred 'British Bulldog' Lol from a City named Newcastle Upon Tyne, we are known as Geordies and i've a Broad Geordie accent, anyway enough of me it is you Ladies i'd love to know more and i'd be happy getting to know yo
Mikey
Standard Member
69
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Bournemouth, Dorset, United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 40 - 59
Drink:
Don't drink
GsoH
I'm 69 now but still young for my age. I live alone in my own apartment in Bournemouth UK. You would always be welcome here and I would respect and take good care of you. Been separated amicably for 8 years now. No going back. She wants to stay alone
david
Standard Member
Verified
57
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Bacup, Lancashire, United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 18 - 27
Drink:
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Appolo
I am 55yr old gent , retired due to I’ll health. I live on a farm of which I am part owner. I am diabetic require insulin and also I need hemodialysy for me to have any sort of resembelence of a life. I drive myself to dialysis and do my own shopping
Bryan
Standard Member
61
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Birmingham, West Midlands, United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 31 - 50
Drink:
Don't drink
Bion
My name is Brian, I am 57 years old .I am a successful property developer (real estate).I am good looking kind and sincere man who is looking for a serious relationship .I have an athletic body and I enjoy the gym ,salsa,scuba diving, socialising and the zest for life.i am looking for a relationship not a girlfriend and someone who is financially stable no time wasters please ..... I'm happy to travel to meet if I find the write person ...good luck ....mr s x
Kevin
Standard Member
61
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Chesterfield, Derbyshire, United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 28 - 50
Drink:
Don't drink
Hello 😃
Hi I’m Kevin, I’m a honest kind hard working loyal man looking for a loving partner to share my life with , I’m retired recently so I have lots of free time to enjoy! I have a pure heart and i will put my partner/ girlfriend above all else look after
alan
Standard Member
79
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Macclesfield, Cheshire, United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 38 - 48
Drink:
Don't drink
maybe meet
easy going good sense of humer know how to treet a lady but i dont like to be used ,Iam a good guy i dont send dirty pictures or my self wheh i get to talk on the web cam ,if we get that far so come on ladys give me a try wrong date of birth ask me m
adrian
Standard Member
Verified
44
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Havering, London (Greater), United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 21 - 38
Drink:
Don't drink
BELIEVE IN YOURSELF
i am a strong but sensitive guy, with high sense of humour . i love to watch movies, play games , have fun , i enjoy good food, like to help people ,i am happy when my friends or family are happy .i don't like persons that are proud and ungrateful,
peter
Standard Member
65
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Southampton, Hampshire, United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 20 - 35
Drink:
Don't drink
seeking compatible life partner
Honest, reliable, trust worthy, unattached, sincere, generous, professional, well traveled, slim built, articulate, methodical, non-smoker, non-alcoholic gent. 2nd home in Cebu, Phil. Permanent Visa holder, had a Stroke, seeks single, unattached Pina
robert
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Verified
70
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Poole, Dorset, United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 40 - 60
Drink:
Don't drink
honest caring person normal.. ,got lots of love
honest cinama,,loves walks,,swimming ..loves the outdoors camping,, swimming,, eating out,,holidays..i will join if the right girl comes along as i dont want any chatting only the one loves travelling .. loves holidays
Chris
Standard Member
47
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Barnet, London (Greater), United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 23 - 47
Drink:
Don't drink
Hi
Hi my name is Chris I like going to the cinema and going out for a meal and just chilling with my family and friends I like to have a laugh and joke and have fun I like to muck about and play fight aswell I like chilling at home watching tv or a movie I like going out on a nice day aswell I live in London Hendon I’ve been single for a while if you want to know more get in touch
Don Christian
Standard Member
46
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Lambeth, London (Greater), United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 25 - 35
Drink:
Don't drink
I am a sincere man, with a big heart, who values love and loyalty. I am not looking for games, but for a real connection and a future full of love and respect. ——- i’m an honest man with a big heart, who values love and loyalty. I’m not looking for games, but for a real connection and a future filled with care and respect.
Henri
Standard Member
Verified
45
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Westminster, London (Greater), United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 20 - 27
Drink:
Don't drink
the one you’ve been looking for 😎
Henri Felix – British-Brazilian lawyer based in London, half the year escaping to warmer seas whenever possible. 5'9" (176cm) with wavy brown hair, tanned skin, and a smile that usually gets me into (and out of) trouble. I love sailing old boats, pl
Christian
Standard Member
63
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Aylesbury, Buckinghamshire, United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 56 - 82
Drink:
Don't drink
Shy type lol
I describe myself as a family-oriented, hardworking man who knows what he wants and doesn't want in his life. I am responsible and committed. I try to be as transparent as possible because that's what I expect from others. I hate lies, and when they
Beren
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26
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Barry, South Glamorgan, United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 22 - 38
Drink:
Don't drink
I am looking for a real connection, not short term
I am a biologist who loves to travel but am looking for someone to settle down with. I am adventurous and fun but can be serious when needed, I am looking for someone who can meet me at my level of emotional maturity. Putting consistent effort in is
Rolin
Standard Member
68
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Brent, London (Greater), United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 30 - 60
Drink:
Don't drink
Soul Mate
I am a down to earth guy that likes to keep life simple, but at the same time exciting. I am honest caring, have a good sense of humour and I like to treat a lady like a queen in spontaneous ways. I am definitely not a straight laced person and can b
sam
Standard Member
66
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Lambeth, London (Greater), United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 35 - 45
Drink:
Don't drink
Smile and the world will smile with you
A very caring, generous with a good sense of humor. I am originally from India and have lived in England for 37 years now.I am now a British Citizen. I love travelling to different countries, dining out and going to movies. I love sports of any kind.
George Archie
Standard Member
48
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City of London, London (Greater), United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 35 - 70
Drink:
Don't drink
A simple & easy going individual with great humor.
If you’re here for games please pass me by, I won’t reply. I am old enough to know what i want in life so i guess you know what you want as well. I’ve learnt to respect every one on this earth, so if you think wrong of someone else, you are doing t
Daniel
Standard Member
42
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Rotherham, South Yorkshire, United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 26 - 42
Drink:
Don't drink
someone for everyone! I guess
Hello everyone hope you're all well,Am not very good at this sort of thing but I give it a go.I enjoy Art pencil drawing,I just started to get into photography, I'm abit of a introvert so I tend to get abit nervous but once I become comfortable with
Noel
Standard Member
61
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Iver, Buckinghamshire, United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 40 - 53
Drink:
Don't drink
no scammers please I’m 61 ,look younger
im well travelled and have visited the Philippines 9 times now . love the theatre and travel and socialising. Also I don’t really trust profiles from America (supposedly) ,most are completely fake . There are so many fake profiles here ,it’s ridicul
Nuno
Standard Member
44
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Boston, Lincolnshire, United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 18 - 44
Drink:
Don't drink
I LOVE AFRICA, IT IS MY SOUL, MY SPIRIT AND ME.
Hi, Thank you for your visit, I hope you are alright. WHTSPPPPP IS +four four seven four six six six nine three eight zero seven. I am Nuno Miguel, Portuguese, 42, single, never married and living in England since 2000. My profile is slightly unorthodox, unconventional and certainly not everyone's cup of coffee. I have just answered questions that will help you understand who I am, why I am here and what I am seeking here. 1-Nuno, do you believe this site? Answer: I really have no idea!!!! I have been using this particular site a few times, not as regular as others, but I do. The site itself is well made and it is okay, however you have to communicate by paying a fee, which is very undesirable and not everyone is able to pay, (like me), specially when there's an economic downturn which is affecting us all. I go with the flow and if anything reaches to something serious, then so be it. One thing that will never entice me into driving myself is despair or a drive to want a relationship in a hasty way. I am not like that, if there's a woman who wishes to enforce me and get into a relationship. I am sorry but that does not work for me, probably you can find someone who is ready to mingle, I just take my time and I always go with the flow, and if I am single, so be it, being single isn't too bad, the only problem is when you have people looking at you, try to break you down and say: Oh., you are single, why? Don't you want to get married and have Kids? stuff like that, I just say, ''Do not despair, it is my Life, my choice, and I can do whatever I want, and whatever choices I make in life and if they happen to give me something that is unexpected, so be it''. 2-What is your purpose here? Answer: I am here to meet people, I am not sure as to what extent this site will provide what we are looking for, but it is worth the try and see how it goes, who knows what lies beneath the layers of such website!? As I said, I just go with the flow. Life is so full of surprises and anything can happen. I am more than happy to face the unknown and see what life can bring into my life. There are occasions when you feel apprehensive, concerned with what the future will be, but live each day as it comes, that is why I am trying to do, or at least, try it. My suggestion is: Be careful with scammers, swindlers, deceivers or anyone who has second intentions to hurt you, your feelings and destroy you in and out. Do not allow anyone to get into your heart without assurance. Let them know that you are not in this world to be hurt and you are forthcoming, upfront and to the point. If she person is close to you to use you, GIVE HIM/HER A KICK IN THE BUTT, you deserve your Happiness, Love, Understanding and everything you are entitled to. 3-How is your personality/attitude like? Answer: Well, I am Cheerful, Outgoing, Genuine and crazy, what would be life without a bit of craziness? I can be anxious, obstinate and of course, moody. I can be happy, but all that depends on how the day goes, I can feel depressed, but that can happen to anyone. Life has its ups and downs. Specially, during this time when the Economy, Brexit, and the Ukrainian war is affecting every aspect of our lives here in the U.K. 4-How long have you been single? Answer: I would say that I have been single most of my life. I am not that picky, but things have not worked out well for me, and yes, I am 42 and still single, I do not have a problem being single, I just haven't been lucky in the love department. When it comes, it comes and if it doesn't, life has to move on and follow its flow. If I happen to be single, then I am not going to be depressed because of that, but if the opportunity arises, I will welcome such opportunity with open arms. There are times when negativity can bring a bad omen into a person's life, I am being realistic, I try to be positive, optimistic, that is all I can do. 5- Are you religious or do you believe in God? Answer: I am not religious, but I am not a non-believer, however there is something out there, or a force that is unexplainable. I do not go to church. I respect everyone's opinion about what they think of their religion and their attitude towards God. If they believe that God is everything to them in their eyes, who am I to judge? It is important that we believe in something, and whatever that is-I hope it makes you feel happy. I hope you can enjoy life to the fullest, where you can reach your potential, you are entitled to everything and whatever you decide, I hope it is for the best. 6-Would you date a woman with a child? Answer: Maybe/maybe not, all depends how I feel towards her. The child is not the problem, and it should never be a problem, as when you have a child, you have to prioritize such child among everything else, but as I have never been married, I would prefer a single/divorced woman. If I happen to like her/love her, I will accept whatever life throws at me, but all is down to the feeling, the love and the care. I have never been engaged with a woman with kids, so I really have no idea about such experience. It may not be for everyone's cup of tea, but we all have to give it a try and see how it goes. I know, there are times when people put a lot of effort into a relationship and after a while, someone in such relationship, calls it quits. Life is like that, you invest your time in something that you think it is worth it, and then you get disappointed, however, that is what life is, it is part of an experience that enlightens the weaknesses and strengths you have and what you can learn from them. 7- Do you want to have kids? Answer: I don't think I do. I do not have the means or stability to look after a child. I understand that a child just needs Love, comfort, and someone to look after him/her needs, unfortunately, I would not be able to do that. I am unsure. I do not have a problem with mothers who have kids. Kids mean everything to a lot of people and they certainly do, they bring happiness, joy and a lot of love, but, to have them, you need to be prepared and be there for them, always. 8-How many brothers do you have? Answer: I have 3 brothers: Victor 38, Marcelo 40, and Valter 43. I also have 2 half-brothers: William 21, Max 22 9-What work do you do? Answer: I am currently working as a Cleaning operative, working part-time hours, between 5:00 a.am to 09:00 a.m. I am looking for more employment opportunities here in Boston, but it is getting harder and harder. A lot of shops are closing down, so there are not a lot of opportunities. Boston is located in a county called Lincolnshire, 120 miles from London. It does not have a lot of public transport and opportunities can only be available if you have a Driving license. I have my provisional license, but I do not have the money to do the Theory or the practical side. I am unsure as to whether I should take driving lessons, as they are costly and at the moment, the financial situation is bad. 10-What do you do when you are not working? Answer: I watch movies, talk to a few members of my family who live with me, and I rarely go out with friends, as I do not have that many, but those I have, I keep them around and keep in touch with them. I am sociable, but I do not like to go out at night. 11-What food do you eat? Answer: I am not that fussy, I eat almost everything, except meat that has fat, I am not a fan of fat. 12-When is your birthday? Answer: I was born on the 12 of March 1981. I share the same birthday with my mother Maria, who was born on the 12 of March 1962. As you can see, I share a common thing with my mother. 13- Are you ambitious? Answer: I think I am, but I have not achieved a lot in my life. I have been given a lot of opportunities in the past and of course, I decided to waste them all, why? I was immature, I was not thinking, I was just wasting my life with insecurities and uncertainties as to what to do with my life. That certainly has affected me since that time. It has been very hard for me to get any opportunities to achieve anything, but I keep my hopes high, as you never know, today you work hard and tomorrow you might be rewarded for your hard work. 14- What are your hopes for the future? Answer: I don't know, I just live each day as it comes. It is so hard to plan or to see what the future will bring, but I am hoping that life is better, with a good job and a better pay of course. I do not think my life will change a lot, but I am hoping it does. 15- In your opinion, do you think life has given you a purpose? Answer: Yes. Life provides you with experience to enrich your purpose with meaning, that meaning will then define you as a person and as a human being. We all aim for a purpose, and whatever road or path we chose, it helps us motivate our innermost being to be in contact with the substance that made us, our true self, our psyche and the spirit within us. 16- Do you get on well with other people? Answer: I do. I do not criminalize, I do not judge others for who they are and how they represent themselves in society, I am not racist, I am not a member of any group. I respect people for who they are, I was raised to respect others and of course, I expect to be respected the same way. I do not like people who have a biased opinion on others. It is normal to have an opinion about this or that, but to have an opinion about someone that is based on the color of their skin or where they come from etc., that is immoral, that goes against the principles of what life is all about. 17- Do you love yourself? Answer: Not as much as I am supposed to. I guess that I have to look myself in the mirror and say to myself: Nuno, this is who you are, you have to like yourself, if you have an imperfection, they are part of you, they are the imperfections that mold you as a person, as a human being, try not think about how you look like, concentrate on filling your heart and soul with love, care and understanding. Others will appreciate you for who you are. Do not change for anyone, if you do have to change, change it for yourself. I do not have to change for anyone else, but I came to realize; change can be a good thing, and the only person who has the power to do that is-myself. 18-What is your height/weight? Answer: I am 216 pounds or 100kg, and my height is around 1'73/1'75 meters. 19- Do you follow fashion? Answer: I am rubbish at it, but I wear clothes that I feel comfortable with. I am not that knowledgeable. 20- Are you feeling hopeful in finding your soul mate here? Answer: To be honest, I do not expect to find it here, but as they say: If you do not try, you will never know whether your luck knocks on your door. If I haven't found today, doesn't mean it doesn't come tomorrow. You have to work hard for what you want to have in your life. That is what I think. If I haven't given the effort, well, that is my fault, but I cannot be 24/7 on a website, trying to find love or my soul mate, that comes with time. I am not rushing about; I just go with the flow. You can say that, sure, I am laidback, but for those things, you have to be, no point in putting pressure on a person who might not be the right soul mate. It is better to be safe than sorry, you know. I am not here to waste anyone's time, that is why I decided to be very upfront and to the point. I do not know what the future brings, but one thing I know is that I am hopeful, Hope is the best thing to have around. There are times when I think hope has died for me. I should not be negative, I should be positive, optimistic. and hopeful for a brighter day.
John
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48
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Colchester, Essex, United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 45 - 60
Drink:
Don't drink
Im looking for a long term relationship
Im a support worker who looks after adults with learning disabilities in their own home aswell as in the community, i like helping people out alot, i like sports, 80's music, listen to smooth radio, classic fm, taking my friends dog out for a walk in
James
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40
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Plymouth, Devon, United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 25 - 45
Drink:
Don't drink
Loving, caring, and understanding
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Mark
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55
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City of London, London (Greater), United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 45 - 70
Drink:
Don't drink
Honesty is my best policy.
A well-traveled, ambitious, and deeply passionate man who has built a career in high-level finance while embracing the richness of life beyond spreadsheets. Whether I’m closing deals in London, savouring wine in Tuscany, or catching a last-minute flight to New York, I live with intention—balancing success with adventure, sophistication with spontaneity. I thrive on deep conversations, laughter over candlelit dinners, and the thrill of exploring new cultures. My passport is well-worn, my mind open, and my heart ready for something meaningful.
Alvin
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34
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Croydon, London (Greater), United Kingdom
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Female 22 - 50
Drink:
Don't drink
Handsome and very Manly
Cool and calm
Glay
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57
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Lambeth, London (Greater), United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 50 - 79
Drink:
Don't drink
Let get a connection💐💐💐...
An old fashion Danish man with a a sense of humor and ready to mingle!
Kuba
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37
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Greenhithe, Kent, United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 18 - 40
Drink:
Don't drink
Hi beautiful Queens
I'm single, looking for a genuine relationship
Liam
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37
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Brent, London (Greater), United Kingdom
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Female 23 - 43
Drink:
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Dieter
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64
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Dumbarton, Strathclyde, United Kingdom
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Female 32 - 52
Drink:
Don't drink
As an Aries looking for a someone to love
A retired and very athletic pensioner still looking for forever. Hope will find it here. Chat to you soon x
Burak
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34
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Buckingham, Buckinghamshire, United Kingdom
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Female 20 - 38
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Later
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Suresh
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58
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Lambeth, London (Greater), United Kingdom
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Female 30 - 49
Drink:
Don't drink
Love is Good
I am good person and matured
NEW
Eric
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24
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Salford, Manchester, United Kingdom
Seeking:
Female 23 - 24
Drink:
Don't drink
Looking for a trusting longterm relationship
I work in IT, enjoy running, relax with music and restaurants, not so keen on busy bars etc, I like sports like football and cricket
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