Hi, and thanks for dropping by!
I just want to express the following which I hope will not detract from any potential interest in my profile, but it is nevertheless taken from the heart and from my experiences of online dating and actually meeting someone - If you don't want to read this next bi...
Hi, and thanks for dropping by!
I just want to express the following which I hope will not detract from any potential interest in my profile, but it is nevertheless taken from the heart and from my experiences of online dating and actually meeting someone - If you don't want to read this next bit, skip down to the bit that reads "About Me...":
Ladies, I am NOT a player and I have feelings just like you do. I am a human being with a heart, with a soul, and not just an object that can be used or hung out to the scorn of those who have previously been hurt by ex-partners or taken for a ride by unsuitable dates.
I want you to be honest and upfront with me if we ever meet for a first date. Don't sit with me at dinner and tell me what I want to hear only for later on to drop me like a stone - dead. We are not kids anymore, we are mature adults.
If you don't think that I am suitable for you, tell me. Yes, there are ways of doing it, but hey, I know that not everyone likes everyone after a date, etc, but at least have the decency to let me know rather than stay in-touch over endless days and weeks telling me how much you like me and that you want to see me again, but you constantly have excuses not to actually meet up again.
Tell me straight, you can then move on with a clear conscience, and I can move on, too.
Don't waste my time, I don't have time to waste. I'm looking for my Soulmate, and if I'm wasting my time with you, I might actually be missing the chance to meet my proper Soulmate.
I'm 5' 11" tall with quite an athletic figure )like to keep myself in trim by sensible weight training, CV workouts and swimming) with dark brown hair, plus I'm clean-shaven.
My friends and family would say that I'm young at heart and pretty chilled-out, but with a sensible head on some ever maturing shoulders!
I'm an ambitious type of person and always set myself high goals, both personally and professionally, and I always wish to be the best that I can be for my partner, although I do not pretend that I don't have any flaws - I am human, after all!
I'm a relaxed person who tries to make the most of every day. You hear so many stories around the world today that it makes you grateful for who you are and what you have.
As with anybody, I always want more than I have, but I do step back, look at myself and my world, and can also appreciate that I have so much more than so many others. But that doesn't stop me wanting and having desires and ambitions to make my life more fulfilling!
I have a youthful approach to life with a head on ever-increasing shoulders of wisdom and understanding! I still feel 21, but have got more common sense and a nicer attitude to life and others that you may not always find at such a younger age.
I enjoy the finer things in life as well. Whereas before I was quite happy to go on an adventure holiday camping out, I'd much rather be staying in a luxury hotel with all the trimmings.
I enjoy gong out, fine wine and food, travelling abroad, culture, history, world affairs, some sport, DIY, keeping fit and healthy, and just generally to the best I can in my world and my friends and family worlds.
I live in Bournemouth and not far from the beach, about 10 mins walk. I have worked in higher managemet for a worldwide, corporate company, which took me all over the place and I spent many times in London and Heathrow Airport!
Now, I work for myself as I needed to get off the gravy train as I longed for summer nights spent socialising in beach bars and bistros with my friends!
For the right person, I'm very loving and loyal and have lots to offer.
So, there is some about me, and I'm sure you have much more to ask, so feel free to drop me a line, and who knows...