59 • Hamburg, Hamburg, Germany
Male / Single / ID: 6031530
Seeking Female 38 - 50 living within 100 kms of Manila, Manila, Philippines For: Friendship, Romance / Dating, Long Term Relationship
Last active: 6 months ago
Beach / Parks, Camping / Nature, Computers / Internet, Concerts / Live Music, Cooking / Food and Wine, Dining Out, Family, Home Improvement, Music (Listening), Meditation, Motorcycles, Movies / Cinema, News / Politics, Philosophy / Spirituality, Science and Technology, Traveling
Barbecue, German, Soul Food, Italian, Vegetarian / Organic, Mediterranean
Classical / Opera, Jazz / Blues, Rock, Soft Rock
Biking, Boating / Sailing, Bowling, Cycling, Diving, Golf, Hiking, Ice Skating / Ice Hockey, In-line Skating, Mountain / Rock Climbing, Pool / Billards, Scuba Diving / Snorkeling, Skiing / Snowboarding, Swimming, Tennis / Badminton, Walking, Yoga / Pilates
What the bleep do we know? (Probably you won't know, google it)
Illusions (by Richard Bach, read it)
Spaghetti with chicken, but only at JollyBee. It tastes best without the chicken, the sauce and the pasta.
depends on the mood
what dress, do you think, a tibetian monk will buy at MOA?
mind and spirit, asking uncomfortable questions, e.g. you are 22, why are you contacting me? Instead of learning something useful and getting independent! Who do you think is responsible for your life? If you have an answer to that, you can write me.
It's easy to say I'm adaptive and flexible if you are not in that situation. I lived in Manila for nearly two years and I had to learn a few things about myself. There a some habits easy to change, e.g. I like potato, you like rice or I like bread, you like rice or I like Nutella, you like rice - now I like rice too. Then there are habits different from mine I can tolerate that everybody likes to "sing" Karaoke (that's just not my pleasure :-)) and then there are rules determinating the backbone of my personality. They are not changeable or able to adapt. They are the basics of what is right and wrong in life and if my partner and me don't agree on that our relationship won't work (e.g. what fabric conditioner is the best?).
I am German and I am a scientist by profession. So I've some qualities built in like honesty, reliability and analytical thinking. I love and I need open communication with people especially with my partner. I'm interested in many things and I like to exchange opinions as a part of growing and learning. I don't feel my physical age. I'm active and curious and open minded like never before. I like to go out for activities like playing golf, skiing, diving, sailing, swimming, biking, hiking, camping etc. I also need my time to rest doing meditation or just watching movies.
You should know, the only one responsible for your life is you! There is no one to blame for suffering and lonelyness. If you don't know how to be happy and grateful for the life god gave you, no one can change it. Don't put the burden for your happiness on your partners shoulder.
For me emotional connection and closeness is crucial. We are partners, friends, lovers in one, so we will do the things of life together. There is NO role for cooking or doing the laundry or taking care of the children. We share. (I know this sounds weird to some of you coz I don't want my partner to be submissive) But still every partner is free to follow his own interests, meet his friends and is not offended coz the partner likes to do something different. Trust instead of jealousy.
Both partners are equal and meet on the same level, no master no slave. No one ist able to read the others mind, so communication is important. Also showing of affections, being attentive, being thankful for the presence of each one.
... and LOVE is everything.