Already Found My One True Love..Good luck everyone

Ryan (41) 

Male / Divorced / ID: 5016838
Amarillo, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 38 living within 100 kms of Cebu City, Cebu, Philippines
For: Penpal, Friendship, Romance / Dating, Long Term Relationship

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Education: Bachelors Degree
Have children: No
Drink: Occasionally drink
Smoke: Don't smoke
Religion: Christian - Other
Occupation: Education / Academic

A preacher once told me that I shouldn't get married if I could possibly live without her. I guess a lot of people settle, knowing that the person they are with isn't the right one. Others are very lucky. Like a match made by God, they just knew they were meant to be from an early age. I hones...read more >>

A preacher once told me that I shouldn't get married if I could possibly live without her. I guess a lot of people settle, knowing that the person they are with isn't the right one. Others are very lucky. Like a match made by God, they just knew they were meant to be from an early age. I honestly wish I were one of the lucky ones, enjoying a match-made-in-heaven and free to move on with the joys of a great relationship. But as I learn more about myself and others here at FilipinoCupid, I realize that though our journeys are much more difficult: filled with frustration and doubt and disappointments and loneliness, in the end we are a fortunate people indeed. We are the lucky ones really, because through all of these, we have endured and become stronger in our faith and more appreciative of how lucky we are to have a God in Heaven who will never forsake us and who has designed each moment of our lives perfectly to mold and shape us for a life and love we can't even imagine. Don't settle friends. We are all set to inherit infinite wisdom, wealth, and enduring love IF we put Him first in all things...good and bad. So come what may, God is in perfect control! Often I am inspired by the beautiful sentiments of my fellow travelers here. Many of you are an inspiration to me to commit to a closer relationship with Him. Self-doubt and insecurities often plague me. And my heart often fails to open for fear of...being hurt. But to risk nothing is to destroy everything. Life without risk is death-drawn-out. At the end of the day I need someone who is willing to learn to love me and someone I can learn to love in return. That's the commitment, to make the effort and to love in action and deed despite all the obstacles and interruptions. But above any romantic affection, we all need someone who will challenge us and change us...to be the person God has intended us to be...to face our fears...and to overcome the set backs. To patiently grow together, we must be willing to make mistakes, learn from them, and move on. If you are prone to convenience and always having your way then maybe marriage isn't for you. I enjoy those things too. But marriage takes a lot of work, and an enduring commitment to overcome every obstacle that will invade. I'm willing to go all in if you are too. Remember, to risk nothing is to lose everything. Victory to the bold and God guide our careless ways.

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About Ryan

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Gender: Male Female
Age: 41 26 - 38
Lives in: Amarillo, Texas, United States within 100 kms of Cebu City, Cebu, Philippines
Relocate: Willing to relocate within my country Willing to relocate to another country, Not sure about relocating
Appearance 
Hair color: Brown Any
Hair length: Medium Any
Hair type: Straight Any
Eye color: Brown Any
Eye wear: Glasses Any
Height: 5'10" (178 cm) 4'7" (140 cm) - 6'5" (196 cm)
Weight: 70 kg (154 lb) Any
Body style: Athletic Any
Ethnicity: Caucasian (White) Asian, Caucasian (White)
Facial hair: Short Beard N/A
Best feature: My Personality Any
Body art: None Any
Appearance: Attractive Very attractive, Attractive, Average
Lifestyle 
Drink: Occasionally drink Don't drink, Occasionally drink
Smoke: Don't smoke Don't smoke
Marital Status: Divorced Single
Have children: No No
Number of children: N/A Any
Oldest child: N/A Any
Youngest child: N/A Any
Want (more) children: No Any
Have pets: Dog Any
Occupation: Education / Academic Any
Employment status: Full Time Any
Income: Prefer not to say Any
Home type: House Any
Living situation: Live with family Any
Background / Cultural Values 
Nationality: United States Philippines
Education: Bachelors Degree Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD or Doctorate
Languages spoken: English English
English ability: Fluent Fluent, Very Good
Religion: Christian - Other Christian - Other
Religious values: Very Religious Very Religious, Religious
Star sign: Cancer Any
Personal 
Bust: N/A Any
Waist: N/A Any
Hips: N/A Any
Hobbies & Interests
Entertainment: Music (Playing), Pets
Food: American
Music: Dance / Techno
Sport: Biking, Bowling, Canyoning / Caving, Pool / Billards, Skiing / Snowboarding, Swimming, Table Tennis, Volleyball

Just be true to yourself! Each of us must first prepare our own hearts, our own lives, and trust that the miracle person we are all waiting for will not meet all the wild fantasies the world puts into our heads. I hope that you are well whoever you are are, and that your life is with purpose and d...read more >>

Just be true to yourself! Each of us must first prepare our own hearts, our own lives, and trust that the miracle person we are all waiting for will not meet all the wild fantasies the world puts into our heads. I hope that you are well whoever you are are, and that your life is with purpose and direction toward the good things. And that if I'm lucky enough to be a part of it, that you will do me the favor or just being the wonderful person you have always been. Treat me as a brother, father, and friend all rolled into one. Though I haven't been there to earn that level of trust and intimacy through all the good times and bad, I too have been preparing myself to be the best I can be for you. Let's enjoy the journey that has been so long, and begin a new path together based on mutual admiration and respect, with no pretending. So much has been required for us just to have this opportunity to know each other, let's not cheat ourselves of the best beginning to what may be our match-made-in-heaven. Best of luck to everyone, and regardless of your relationship status, I hope that we all recognize the purpose of each member here and learn from each other as we prepare ourselves for the one God has given for us to love.

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