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I am a person who believes I am here to better my soul and I do so by living through physical experiences. I by no means am anywhere near perfect and have made many mistakes in my life from small to overwhelmingly large... but I don't always neccesarily see them as mistakes. I believe there is a direct correlation between mistakes and lessons/knowledge/wisdom. If the lesson learnt, the knowledge acquired, wisdom gained is equal to or greater then the magnitude of the mistake made then i feel it is not what you would call a mistake. Sometimes our perception is enough for us to make a responsible choice but some other times we need to learn by physical experience. If we take all we can from a mistake we've made then in the future we will not make that mistake again as our perception will be enough to put us in the position to make the responsible choice. I am a concrete believer in the building blocks of a rewarding and joyful relationship are honesty, trust, and reliability. And I am honest enough to explain honesty in the way I see it. It is human nature for us to tend to lean toward the easier path when confronted with a situation or choice. After learning, accepting and applying this fact I have been able to improve my own honesty and greatly improve other people's honesty with me. There is a spectrum of people, on one end you have people that are lied to a lot, on the other end you have people that are rarely lied to. The difference is how they converse with others. A person who is confrontational, quick to judge and point out imperfections and quick to put down others, is not understanding or non forgiving will be lied to many times... because the person that they are treating this way will find it much easier to simply lie to them so they don't have the intimaditing feeling of what might happen if they tell the truth.. therefore they choose to be dishonest at the moment because at that moment it is the much easier path to take. Now a person that is understanding, forgiving, never to judge, that shows compassion and genuine care for the person they are talking to will rarely be lied to. Why because they have made the path to truth so much easier to take. If you know that if you tell the truth you will be treated positively instead of negatively you are much more likely to tell the truth. I Manage a company with up to 50 employees and By using this idea Many people come to me with things they never would before because they know I won't judge and will be helpful to them. Other positive traits I possess are I have an extremely large charitable heart, and I will never let anything change that. No matter how many people with ill intentions try to take advantage of me I will never let that change who I am. And the older I've become the easier I've been able to identify people with those bad intentions and seperate myself from them. So after reading the above I will quickly describe my positive traits, I am very caring, loving, affectionate, sacrificing, forgiving, understanding, nonjudgmental, outgoing, spontaneous, open minded, natural leader, driven, and possess a broad sense of humour. I always try to smile instead of frown. If life gives me lemons I will always put an effort into making them into lemonade.

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Before anything I live by actions speak louder then words... to me if I read your profile and In it you say you are very serious about finding love, then later you simply send me a "she's interested in you" notification, that doesn't really show me you are serious. But if a woman Doesn't even have the word serious in her profile but sends me a message that after reading it I think to myself wow she actually put some time and thought into making that letter... then I believe this is a girl that's actually serious. You're only serious if you're willing to put some effort into what you're serious about. If there's no effort then you really aren't serious. So big hint, if you simply send me an interest notification don't expect me to come running. Send me a thoughtful message that will capture my attention and I will be much more appreciative and receptive to you. It's like a first impression on the internet haha. So after saying that The most important single thing That I must have in a woman is this.... I need someone who everyday when I wake up, rain or shine, makes me want to be a better man, a better husband, a better lover, a better provider, a better human being. If you are able to harness that power Of aligning my soul towards betterment then you are a true soulmate and will be treated as such. Someone that can match my love, passion, affection, intimacy, kind hearted ness, and devotion. I know I ask a lot but the reward is as big as the effort. And I love feeling a great sense of reward.

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